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Women tend to decide for men what they consider sexy and what is not. But, contrary to stereotypes, not every stereotypical beauty of a man is ready to be called desirable. What are the qualities of an attractive woman?
Of course, men like women with different types of appearance. And yet, some qualities do not leave indifferent any representative of the stronger sex. Who are they ready to consider sexy beauties?
Self-confident
Allan and Barbara Pease, in Why Men Want Sex and Women Want Love, talk about a study that involved girls aged 13 to 28. Psychologists asked them only one question: “Are you satisfied with your appearance?” 86% of those surveyed answered: “No!” They said they were ready to go under the knife of a plastic surgeon, just to become more beautiful. But it turned out that a man does not care (at least, according to the authors) about the imperfections of a woman if … he is passionate about her.
The authors write: “When a man is infatuated with a woman, stretch marks on her stomach seem sexy to him, big hips are seductive, and thin hair is the perfect hairstyle.” But what makes them addicted to girls with imperfect appearance? Many answer: «Self-confidence.» Apparently, this explains the fact that sometimes not the most beautiful girls are popular with men.
Healthy and well-groomed
“If we talk about appearance, then most of all we pay attention to posture, gait, elasticity of the skin, delicate hands and soft hair,” says a participant in one of the surveys on the topic of female sexuality. Often men evaluate appearance based not on aesthetic considerations — they unconsciously form an idea of uXNUMXbuXNUMXbher reproductive ability: wide hips — she can give birth, large breasts — she can feed, healthy skin and shiny eyes — generally healthy. For the same reason, they opt for young girls (of reproductive age), and older women, realizing this, often seek to hide their true age.
With a good figure
“In general, men love those parts of the female body that are not like their own. Where he is flat, the woman is convex. Where he is hard, she should be soft,” write Allan and Barbara Pease.
The fact that male and female ideas about the ideal female figure are different was found out by the American psychologist Paul Rosen. During the experiment, he showed participants photographs of women with different types of figures — from owners of model parameters to full ladies. The slimmer the girl was, the more women said: “This is what you need! I’d like to look like that too.» Men called the most attractive women of average build and predominantly with an hourglass figure.
With a unique feminine scent
It has been known since ancient times that the smell of a woman affects men at the subconscious level. It is so inherent in nature that each person emits his own unique and inimitable aroma, which can be both attractive and repulsive, which is why this process is called “chemical communication”.
Fragrances that affect attraction are called pheromones. They begin to be produced by the body from the moment of puberty, often at this time there is a feeling of first love.
Experts recommend reducing stress levels, eating a balanced diet, sleeping well and taking vitamins.
Under the influence of various factors, both physical and emotional, the development of a unique own perfume can change. So, for example, at the time of ovulation (the middle of the menstrual cycle), the natural aroma of a woman becomes the most attractive to men. And the smell of a woman with an imbalance of sex hormones, on the contrary, can be repulsive.
Since a person is not able to feel his own aroma, it is unfortunately impossible to catch such subtle changes in the balance of pheromones. A key indicator of the correct balance of hormones is the menstrual cycle. If the cycle is too long or too short, there is PMS or pain in «these days», action must be taken. Gynecologists recommend reducing stress levels, eating a balanced diet, sleeping well, and taking vitamins and minerals at every phase of the cycle.
The sexiest women through the eyes of common men
We took photos of seven recognized beauties and asked the men if we should take an example from them.
Angelina Jolie
Dmitry, 23 years old, PR manager: “It seems to me that Angelina used to be different, now she has lost weight and looks rather sick.”
Vladimir, 29 years old, programmer: “In my opinion, her beauty is exaggerated, there are much more beautiful women.”
Andrei, 34, entrepreneur: “I liked Angelina when she played Lara Croft, and after the divorce she began to look really bad. Or someone thinks it’s beautiful? Why does everyone think that we only love thin people?”
Eugene, 40 years old, diplomat: “I love slender women and respect the position and activities of Angelina. She has a very deep look, and I have always been fascinated by her mystery (and not full lips, as everyone might think).”
Vera Brezhneva
Dmitry, 23 years old, PR manager: “She is incredibly beautiful, everything in her is harmonious, well, or I just love natural blondes.”
Vladimir, 29 years old, programmer: “I think Vera deserves the title of the sexiest girl in our country.”
Andrey, 34 years old, entrepreneur: “The natural and real Faith cannot but be liked. I note that there is some kind of zest in her, or maybe just that she is not very similar to modern girls who look the same – remembering their appearance is sometimes very difficult.
Eugene, 40 years old, diplomat: “Vera is beautiful and smart, but still there are girls more beautiful than her.”
Nyusha
Dmitry, 23, PR manager: “Nyusha looks very nice, but I don’t think she is one of the sexiest girls. To be honest, I would have passed.”
Vladimir, 29 years old, programmer: “She is pretty, I love this type. And what a look! Seen? It’s easy to attract any man like that.”
Andrey, 34, entrepreneur: “I don’t like Nyusha only one thing: her name. I was just always worried about the question: when she turns 40, will she also perform under this pseudonym? Joking aside, she is beautiful, but I say this without enthusiasm, because I saw her in the photo a couple of times and was surprised at her outfits. Girls, if you think that we like such madness, you are strongly mistaken!
Eugene, 40, diplomat: “I used to not be particularly interested in her work, but recently turned on the music channel and was amazed at how she moves. In the dance, I didn’t even see her face, although it was clear that she was beautiful.”
Gigi Hadid
Dmitry, 23 years old, PR manager: “Gigi is sexy and plastic. You look at her figure and you forget to look at her face.”
Vladimir, 29 years old, programmer: “Yes, she has a figure, but to be honest, I can’t understand what it is about her that everyone is crazy about.”
Andrei, 34, entrepreneur: “Girls seem to be more crazy about her than boys. To me, she seems natural and too young to be called a sex symbol. I love the way she smiles – always very sincere.”
Eugene, 40, diplomat: “Younger Hadid is much nicer than her older sister. I have already said that I love slender, but I would not pass by the appetizing forms of Gigi.
Anna Sedokova
Dmitry, 23 years old, PR manager: “I love girls with big eyes and an open look! But Ani’s many selfies are often too revealing, and that’s scary.”
Vladimir, 29 years old, programmer: “Her face always seemed disproportionate to me, and all these experiments with makeup make her a Barbie doll. I want to put this on the shelf.”
Andrei, 34, entrepreneur: “I like Anna better in the photo where she is without makeup, and all this explosive mixture of shadows, blush, lipstick and highlighters (or whatever) is good only for the stage.”
Eugene, 40, diplomat: “I am amused by girls who constantly post selfies on Instagram. It seems that instead of eating at least twice a day, they run to the mirror. Anya, apparently, also does not neglect this, hence such an unnatural expression on her face.
Victoria Bonya
Dmitry, 23 years old, PR manager: “I am indifferent to Bona, I don’t understand why everyone considers her a beauty.”
Vladimir, 29 years old, programmer: “She is somehow unpleasant, although in many photos she has a figure that is necessary!”.
Andrey, 34, entrepreneur: “But I remember the moment when she performed in the HSE program. She has a strong character, but her facial features are coarse, she makes a lot of herself.
Eugene, 40, diplomat: “I like Vika and sometimes reminds me of Angelina. Someone says that she copies her, but this is nonsense. Bonya is a very open person, and I like her lips, although when you see the same for everyone, it starts to bother.
Kim Kardashian
Dmitry, 23 years old, PR manager: “Kim’s butt decides everything, she may not even make up so much, her butt will always be popular!”
Vladimir, 29 years old, programmer: “An asexual woman in all respects! She will crush anyone! I’m afraid of her!”
Andrey, 34 years old, entrepreneur: “Girls, you don’t learn from her, you don’t need to wear makeup a la the protagonist of the film “Mask”, look how confident she is! It seems to me that even the beautiful Vera Brezhneva cannot boast of this.
Yevgeny, 40 years old, a diplomat: “Of course, she made her face perfect – there’s nothing to complain about, but she definitely shouldn’t boast about her figure, these are no longer appetizing forms, but some kind of perversion.”
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