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The right to have one’s own is one of the rights of a family member, enshrined in the Family Constitution.
What am I thinking now? — It does not concern you, it is mine, personal. What does the girl have in her purse? “It doesn’t concern you, it’s hers, private. Where will Vasya go after work? — And what is your business? This is his personal.
Own, personal — these are, first of all, personal things, personal time, personal affairs, personal friends. But not only that — there are also topics (questions) that concern me personally and no one else. See Personal and General Topics
My options and rights
I am the master of my personal territory. My territory — I am the owner here, I freely decide everything, I can change my life without consultations.
What to eat for the husband — the husband decides, and if there is an agreement what the wife cooks — she must do what the husband wants. Although it is reasonable and pleasant for a husband to ask the opinion of his beloved wife.
Duty to respect the frontier
You can’t climb into someone else’s territory without permission.
If this is not my territory, but yours, I cannot press, interfere, demand explanations, I can only make requests and mild personal opinions.
If the question concerns my men’s affairs, and they do not affect anyone else (for example, questions about the husband’s work), the wife can express her personal opinion, but God forbid something more than that. How to make sure that you are still listened to, and not dismissed? See «Give Me Five Minutes».
If this is my territory, you cannot enter my territory. You can ask, you can’t demand or get angry.
What to watch on TV for a wife in the absence of her husband or whether to write down the daily routine in the morning is not a question of the husband, this is the territory of the wife. What ue to wear to her husband when he goes to the store is his question.
Duty of self-service
From the right to personal property follows the duty of self-service.
I pay for my territory myself: time, effort, money. On my territory, I take on all my problems, I solve them myself. My territory — no one is obliged to solve my problems. See Self Service
Is it possible to lose the right to your territory?
Yes, you can. If you stop serving yourself on your territory and hang your problems on others, they can use their right to acquire rights and declare this part of your territory to be common, or even their own.