PSYchology
The film “Private life: the joy of close relationships. The session is conducted by Prof. N.I. Kozlov and psychologist Marina Smirnova»

The right of equality in discussion.

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​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​The right to equality in discussion is one of the rights of a family member, enshrined in the Family Constitution.

We give up privileges and have equal rights. Privileges can be given, privileges cannot be taken.

  • A man has no special rights, simply because he is a man.
  • A woman does not have any special privileges until they are given to her by a man.
  • Children don’t have any special advantage if we don’t want to raise them as parasites.

If suddenly someone’s rights arbitrarily fall from the sky: “Well, this is a child!!”, “You have to give in to me, because I am a woman!” or in the most arbitrary way they are lost: “Go away, woman, horsemen are thinking here!” — working to acquire rights becomes less interesting, if not simply meaningless.

The counterweight to the rule of equality is the right to acquire rights: “The more you do, the more you can do. The one who invests more mind, time and effort, acquires more rights.

In addition to the right to acquire rights, the couple has a natural right to demand discussion of general issues and the development of private agreements: who can do what, who should do what. It is quite possible that in a particular family, the final agreements will fix a significant inequality that suits both parties.

In one of the urban families, the couple amicably agreed that the wife is completely and in everything subordinate to her husband. The husband used this right and on all issues demands that the wife now make her decisions promptly and independently. Consequences — the wife abruptly went up the career ladder.


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