From an interview. Question:
What qualities, in your opinion, should a man have in order to be a model for the most intelligent and worthy women? To be loved, respected and admired for years and decades by his beautiful chosen one?
Nikolai Kozlov:
Smart and worthy women most often want to see intelligence, strength and reliability in the man of their dreams.
A handsome man is attractive, but it is not the beauty of the body that makes him a man. Beauty will always be replaced by neatness, and a man should take care that his body can function. This means that health, strength and endurance are important to him.
But a real man does not begin with a strong body, but with a strong mind! A stupid man is not a man. A real man has common sense, education, a broad outlook, the ability to find solutions in the most difficult situations.
But the mind without will is empty. A real man is a strong-willed person. He, as a reasonable person, is able to resist temptations, remembers his goals and objectives, is self-possessed and does not succumb to difficulties. “A man does not whine, does not complain, does not cry and is not afraid” — these are the norms of the cultural code of the male community. A man must do what he must, and if his emotions, feelings and experiences interfere with this, be stronger than them.
A man will not put off the decision «for later» in the hope of «somehow it will resolve.» “Understood, thought, decided, done!” — here is a simple algorithm of actions of a real man.
A real man is a reliable man. A real man is a creator. Building a house, raising a son, planting a tree is a natural male task. A man is a protector, he knows what duty is and what “should” means. It is a matter of honor for a man to honor the law, to protect his family, loved ones and everything that is dear to him.
In the family, a man knows his masculine duties and does everything so that he is not reminded of them. For him, being the head of the family is a matter of honor. To be the first, leader, leader is the high task of a real man. He strives to be a leader always and everywhere — for himself, in the family, in the company.
A real man has his own way and his own business. At a minimum, a man knows how to work and is not afraid of work. A man feels fulfilled and is able to focus on relationships with a woman if he has figured out the three most important questions for him: who he is, what he does and how much he earns.
Appeal to men: you need to be a real man! At least for the sake of being loved and never stopped loving by your real woman.
Nobody knows if you will meet your dream. But you can be sure of one thing: you need to prepare in advance to meet your dream. You need to love your soul mate ten years before meeting her: otherwise you met her, she fell in love with you, and what did you give her? Yourself unfinished, problematic? .. To work on yourself always, all your life — this is the main commandment of worthy people: those who know how to love.