The pegging, also called the pegging in French, is a sexual practice which consists for a woman to penetrate her male partner. This female sodomy is usually performed using a strap-on. A role play allowing to experience new sensations and during which the woman becomes penetrating. 

Often wrongly placed in the category of SM (sadomasochist) practices, pegging refers to anal intercourse during which the woman becomes the one who enters a heterosexual couple. Thanks to the use of a sextoy such as the dildo, the traditional roles are reversed, without necessarily establishing a notion of domination or pain to achieve pleasure. Indeed, pegging is above all a way of exploring and stimulating erogenous zones in men such as the prostate. 

Physical pleasure for him, psychological pleasure for her, the fact that a woman penetrates her partner, whether it is with a dildo or her fingers, is also to be able to free herself from gendered representations and to transgress a form of prohibition.

Open discussion

Penetration by women is still at the center of many taboos and questions about sexual orientation. Some couples may have difficulty getting out of the role plays pre-established by our heteronormous societies. For many, anal pleasure in men will lead to questions about homosexuality.

If pegging is something that appeals to you, start by talking about it with your partner. This discussion will be the way to deconstruct the clichés around female penetration and to address the fact that the anus is an erogenous zone allowing to increase tenfold the pleasure in some men. The mutual trust in your relationship will only be strengthened, opening the door to discovering new ways of discovering sexual pleasure.

Buy the right accessories

The pegging is generally practiced using a strap-on dildo. For a first experience, it is recommended to use a standard size sextoy, or even a little smaller than the average in order to avoid a possible tear or anal injury.

You should also think about the lubricant, because unlike the vagina, the anus is an area that does not produce natural lubrication. 

A gentle introduction to pegging

Before an anal act, it is recommended to focus on foreplay. Prepare the area gently, first with your fingers, before gradually inserting the sex toy using the lubricant. The movement of penetration on the part of the woman will not necessarily come naturally. Several attempts are often necessary before finding the desired pleasure. Fear of hurting, difficulty finding your rhythm, pegging requires good communication and patience between the two partners.

A man’s G-spot, also known as the P-spot, is inside the rectum, near the urethra and prostate. This erogenous zone that surrounds the prostate is particularly innervated, which is why sodomy can cause such powerful pleasure. 

While anal penetration can help men achieve prostate orgasm, wearing a strap-on can also stimulate the clitoris and cause women to orgasm.

It is important to follow certain precautions: 

• Use a lubricant before starting anal practice; 
• Massage and gently penetrate the area to prevent the risk of tearing; 
• Observe strict hygiene, the anus and rectum can be areas carrying germs; 
• Limit the use of the dildo to the anal area. For any other penetration, oral or vaginal, remember to clean the sex toy well beforehand;
• Thoroughly clean the sex toy after each sexual intercourse.