This young mother’s story looks completely implausible. But life is often cooler than any movie. It seems that our heroine encountered a man with an alien ethic.
“It happened when I was pregnant with my first child, four years ago. It fell to me to give birth exactly before Halloween. The contractions began suddenly, and when I was taken to the hospital, the disclosure was already 8 centimeters. They accepted me, issued me, put me under the CTG and left. After two hours of torment, my mother-in-law rushed to the hospital. I still don’t know what she did, but they let her into the ward. Maybe she just paid the nurses?
At first everything was fine. My contractions intensified, but my mother-in-law did not want to wait until her granddaughter was born. She began to rush me! Can you imagine? She, you see, urgently needed to go outside, and she did not want to miss all the fun. She even began to threaten – they say, if I don’t give birth right now, she will help me: she will put pressure on my stomach as it should. From pain and fatigue, I could hardly understand what she was saying, these words simply did not fit in my head. It’s good that her nurses heard and escorted out the door. She was gone for 40 minutes, then the mother-in-law returned.
By that time I was already in childbirth, attempts began. Epidural anesthesia I did not have time to do, it hurt like hell, it seemed to me that the birth continued for an eternity. I wanted everything to end quickly, to lie down and fall asleep. In general, I did not understand anything and did not notice anything around. Later, when they put my girl on my chest, I noticed that my mother-in-law had a phone in her hands. “So what,” she thought, “he’s probably calling his son.” But it turned out that she was recording the entire birth process. The way they sewed me up, the tears were very serious, too!
I asked her to remove the video. She said that without any problems, of course, she would delete everything. A week after my discharge, my husband and I came to visit her. Some of her friends were visiting my mother-in-law, I didn’t even know them. And then one of the men looks at me and says: “You know, you should take care of your intimate muscles. Otherwise your husband will leave you. “
It was as if I had been hit on the head. At first I didn’t understand what he was talking about. And when it came to my mind that my mother-in-law had shown him a video from my birth, I simply lost my speech, stood and gasped for air. The husband did not know where to go out of shame. It turned out that his mother hadn’t deleted the video. On the contrary, she showed it to everyone, even to those whom she barely knew.
“This is my first granddaughter! I deserve this video, ”said the mother-in-law. She sincerely believed that everything was in order!
In general, we had to literally delete this video by force. My husband does not communicate with his mother now. I forbade this woman to even come close to me or my children. She wanted to show everyone the birth of her granddaughter? Great, she will never see her again. “