One of the main secrets is that winners in life actively use words that arouse the energy of success in them!
Do you want to know these words and take them into service? Valuable information at your service! I propose to focus your attention on such a magic word from the winners in life as “task”.
How often do you use this word in your life?
Listen..
Unfortunately, unsuccessful people often hear the word «problem». And the more often they repeat it in a mournful voice, the further they slide into the pit of failure.
Words program our mood and our behavior. Psycholinguistics is a very cool thing! And who owns it, he turns out to be far ahead in his life results.
We can use the influence of words as something very useful and powerful in our life, or we can, out of ignorance, use it to the detriment. At the same time, causing this harm to yourself daily, methodically, diligently.
Therefore, I repeat once again for all those interested in psycholinguistics: successful people have only the word “task” in their speech arsenal, the word “problem” is absent in their arsenal.
There is a task!
If a person uses the word “problem”, then it provokes him to ask himself the following questions − what is the problem, what is the reason, why did this happen, who is to blame … It forces you to waste time … to procrastinate the problem.
What is the meaning of the word «task»?
To the habit of accompanying any situation with such questions as: what task is now in front of me, how this task is best solved, what benefits this situation brought me — what was new in solving it, I learned what discoveries I made, what skills I developed.
This approach makes it possible to effectively accumulate your experience: it teaches you to focus not on what is bad, what is difficult, what is impossible, but on what is good here, what to use here, what needs to be further tightened.
Let’s look at an example: the girl does not have the most beautiful appearance. How does the problem sound: I am ugly, so I have this .. and that … and that … How does the task sound: What do I need to do to create an interesting attractive image from my appearance?
Or: I couldn’t get a good education, so I have this…this…and that. Task: I need to improve my qualifications in such and such an area, what do I need to do for this?
The well-established approach of «voicing the task» includes a search mode of the brain. And you can be sure, friends, the brain will find the right solution!
Why do we want to be successful? We master a very simple way — we remove the word “problem” from the verbal arsenal and always use, in any situation, only the word “task”: what is the task before me now ?!
Friends, what is your current task or even tasks?
Think… Formulate… Act!
Psycholinguistics is not only the knowledge of how words affect us, it is the concrete results of applying this knowledge to wise people.
The formulated task is a command to our brain, it is a surge of energy, it is the injection of necessary hormones and neurotransmitters into the body.
And remember one more secret: ENERGY IS RELEASED TO THE TASK!
Psychic energy cannot be accumulated. It can only be aroused.