Sexual domination is a role play in which one of the partners subjects the other to sexual practices or behaviors in order to give him pleasure. These roles can be played by both men and women. What is a domineering woman and where does this desire to dominate come from?

Sexual domination is a consensual erotic play of behavior and roles during intercourse. This game results in an attitude of power and authority towards the dominated partner (s). This is a way of thinking in which we position ourselves, a sort of common thread that will influence the course of the sexual act.

This fantasy of being dominant is experienced by men as well as women, and the roles can be quite interchangeable. Thus, the one who commands imposes practices on the submissive in order to provide him with pleasure. This can result in different practices, like SM, spankings, scenarios, etc. The dominant can also impose certain sexual positions or make his dominated wear an outfit. 

Unlike submission, sexual domination in women allows you to gain the upper hand in the sexual game. The one who has the position of the dominatrix indeed feels powerful, since it is she who has the power for a given period. Some people, both men and women, need this feeling of power in order to achieve enjoyment.

This role can also be a source of pleasure as you decide how you are going to satisfy your partner. Indeed, he finds himself at the mercy of your caresses, if he is for example attached or constrained in his movements. Thus, domination can thus be an opportunity to reverse the roles within the couple, if usually one is more in control than the other. 

A domineering woman is a woman who likes to have the role of dominant during a power relationship between partners. This means that she takes pleasure in playing this role and that the idea of ​​dominating turns her on sexually. The role of the dominant involves both enjoying exercising authority, but also seeing his or her partner being submissive.

These roles are undefined, and a woman who generally likes to be the dominant one may also like to be submissive. This domination can be expressed by different means: a taste for attaching one’s partners, forcing them to practices, insulting them, etc. There are as many domination practices as there are individuals. 

Sexual domination allows you to take power in the relationship for a period. Thus, some women thrive in this role because they do not have an authoritarian character in their daily life and want to experience it in their sex life. But we must not generalize: there are lots of reasons to like domination, and it would be simplistic to try to explain it by just a few factors.

Domination also allows you to take control of the course of sexual intercourse. This can allow a woman to better achieve pleasure by favoring positions or practices in which she takes more pleasure. 

Do not confuse domination and SM (for sadomasochism). Indeed, SM consists in taking pleasure by inflicting suffering (physical and / or moral) on one’s partner. It can be bites, beatings, humiliations, etc. Although SM implies a relationship of domination, conversely, domination does not imply making one’s partner suffer;

It is indeed possible to establish a submission relationship without being the “victim” and being sexually abused. Finally, we must keep in mind that sexual domination is only a game, and that it must in no case be synonymous with suffering (moral or physical) for either of the two partners, who must be fully consented.