The development of femininity

At women’s trainings, a popular slogan is: «Discover the femininity in yourself!» It is assumed that every woman has femininity, she only sleeps in her, and if she is awakened (the option is that she is clogged in her, and if you just lose control and relax), the woman will immediately become feminine! Unfortunately, this is not so.

In a growing girl, femininity in finished form is not laid down anywhere, in any place. If a woman has never seen models of femininity and has not learned any of this behavior, she has nothing to look for and discover in herself. It happens differently: a girl saw interesting examples of femininity, once tried and developed them, and then, for one reason or another, stopped doing this and is now afraid to behave this way. In this case — yes, a lot can be usefully remembered, and in this sense — to discover femininity in yourself.

In any case, femininity is a certain style of internal and external behavior, and femininity can be developed in the same way as any skill.

To practice feminine behavior:

• Don’t act like a man, even if you run your own company. Let the men open the door for you. Stay a woman. Don’t make sarcastic jokes. Don’t laugh at jokes by slapping your knees with your hands. This is how you can treat your friends. But with a man, you should be calm and mysterious, behave like a true lady, sit cross-legged and smile. Don’t talk too much. Wear black sheer tights and lift your skirt up to seduce the opposite sex!
• Learn to walk from the hip.
• Change your make-up and clothing style (pick up bright and expressive things, replace thick sweaters with suits and blouses, trousers with skirts).
• Learn to speak the literary language; especially be careful not to use slang and colloquial expressions.
• Allow yourself to be weak and helpless 1-3 times a day.
• Flirt with everyone, as well as «make eyes» at least 3 men a day.
• Gather a collection of photos of fashion models and actresses for later analysis of poses, clothing and makeup.
• Get used to the image of a woman in all situations and with all people.

You take small sips — never drink in one gulp! – and let the man know something about you, not the other way around. Your answers are short, clear and seductive. Your gestures are gentle and feminine. As your hair falls over your face, you tilt your head back and use your fingers to comb your hair from the top of your head in slow, fluid motions.

All of your movements — the way you excuse yourself to go to the ladies’ room or look at your watch at the end of a date — are fluid and sexy. You can take care of yourself. You do not lie in bed in a black depression, do not eat cakes, nervous before a date. You just took a bubble bath, read this book, and felt some positive slogans:

– I am a beautiful woman. I am quite self-sufficient.

Keep an eye on the environmental friendliness of your behavior — you should not work out femininity on your own boss.

Confirmation of accomplishment: Get 5 feedback from real men with confirmation of your femininity.

Video from Yana Shchastya: interview with professor of psychology N.I. Kozlov

Topics of conversation: What kind of woman do you need to be in order to successfully marry? How many times do men get married? Why are there so few normal men? Childfree. Parenting. What is love? A story that couldn’t be better. Paying for the opportunity to be close to a beautiful woman.