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The Anti-Bedroom: 10 Things That Kill Love
Try to get rid of them – and you will see how romance and passion return to the relationship.
You may not have thought about it, but the decor in the bedroom most directly affects our personal life or lack thereof. We have collected those things that can eventually destroy all the romance in your home. Check to see if they are in your bedroom?
1. Mirrors
It would seem that many designers have repeatedly repeated that large mirrors, as well as mirrored ceilings, wardrobes and other furniture have no place in a bedroom. Why, there is a whole list of places where it is strictly forbidden to hang a mirror. At the same time, psychologists, for example, assure that mirror surfaces can negatively affect love and marriage, even destroy them.
Only mirrors located in the bedroom have such an effect, in other spaces they are able to have a completely beneficial effect and even visually enlarge the room. According to the Eastern teachings of Feng Shui, for example, a mirror placed at the foot of the bed negatively affects the relationship of the spouses, opposite the door – it sends all the positive energy back.
2. Aquarium
Beautiful aquariums with fish have a right to exist, but not in the room where the bed of the spouses is located. According to Feng Shui, the aquarium is one of the carriers of the energy of the elements of water, which is responsible for material wealth in the house. But not in the bedroom! Otherwise, there may be a negative impact on the health of those people who sleep there. Therefore, if you dreamed of getting a goldfish and admiring it before going to bed, then you will either have to say goodbye to this idea, or arrange your fish in another room.
3. Decorative fountain
Returning to the element of water, one cannot fail to mention the decorative fountains and waterfalls, which at one time became very popular. All of these decorative elements, as well as paintings and posters depicting water, should not be placed in the bedroom, otherwise it can lead to headaches and insomnia. And then there is certainly no time for romance and amorous pleasures!
4. Old documents and magazines
Tell me, do you really need that stack of magazines or newspapers from 2000? Perhaps it was worth getting rid of them as soon as you read them, and not hoarding in the corner. And family archives, which, according to ancient Eastern teachings, are a source of someone else’s energy (important documents, papers, photographs, etc.), also have no place in the bedroom! They can be taken to a study or living room. And the best thing is to sort out and leave only what is really important.
5. Portraits of other people and images of animals
Pictures, posters, postcards depicting wild animals, photographs (even of relatives!) Should also not be kept in the bedroom. The fact is that the atmosphere in the bedroom is designed to help a person restore vitality and tune in a certain way. And all these things can provoke the appearance of negative energy and bring trouble. Plus, when it comes to photographs of real people, why do you need strangers peeking into your bed?
6. Indoor flowers
No, the living plants themselves in the house are very good, but not in the bedroom. The fact is that green plants have their own energy, which can interfere (albeit unwittingly) in your personal life. And some flowers, for example, do not like the presence of men and practically “expel” them from your life. Therefore, you should not tempt fate once again and it is better to put a pot with your green pet in the kitchen, bathroom, study or living room.
7. Household appliances and gadgets
Psychologists pay attention to the fact that the presence of a TV in the bedroom can kill romance and nullify love relationships. In addition, all electrical devices generate an electromagnetic field, which can lead to headaches, pressure problems and even negative changes in blood composition and hormone concentration. Therefore, move phones, TVs and other gadgets to another room.
8. A mess
Chaos can whirl and depress anyone. After all, hardly anyone wants to think about foreplay or passionate sex in a room where dust is everywhere, clothes are scattered around, and on the bed – sheets of questionable cleanliness. Therefore, in order to establish your intimate life, you must first start a general cleaning and free the house from unnecessary things.
9. Sofa
Well, in fact, we are all adults, well, what kind of sofa? You need to sleep on a normal bed, and not on a folding monster. This is permissible as a student, when it was possible to fall asleep even upside down. And at a conscious age, sleeping on the couch is a very bad idea. First of all, because it is impossible to sleep well on it. Well, sex on the couch is simply uncomfortable.
10. Things under the bed
How the bed stands and what you store underneath it matters. You can’t put a marital bed in a corner, for example. Maybe that’s why in all the classic examples of bedroom design, the bed is always in the center of the wall?
The space under it, too, cannot be cluttered. Energy should circulate freely under the bed, because it passes through you too. The maximum that can be kept under the bed is bedding.