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The 10 reasons to stay single on Valentine’s Day and enjoy it
Bachelor’s day
The difficulty of coexistence, spending money and fights are things that you avoid enjoying being single
Being single sometimes makes you dizzy. In a society that sometimes seems designed to live as a couple, The singles they face a stigma. The older we get, the more “serious” this loneliness seems, many times chosen. Singleness with a small mouth is admitted, almost out of shame for what they will say and a search – almost desperate – is undertaken for a life partner, often unwanted.
With Valentine’s Day! just around the corner, a day that can be uphill for singles, we leave you 10 reasons why we believe that being single sometimes is all advantages:
1. Although you can not always be so lucky, and maybe you share a flat with colleagues or friends, being single can also translate into living alone. The house decorated to your liking, not having to give explanations to anyone and a whole home molded to your customs. Few few sound better! Living together can become an ordeal.
2. Being alone is a perfect vehicle for introspection. And that is where we must start to know ourselves, the fundamental pillar on which to build good self-esteem. There is nothing healthier than loving yourself.
3. There are times when, because of (or because of) our partner, we neglect our friendship relationships. And these are very important in our life. Valuing our friends and strengthening these relationships helps us in all areas of our life.
4. Finding a partner can be a very boring process. Some even say that it is like “looking for work.” Now, that we are forced to resort to apps and online platforms to meet people, a model that is not made for everyone, flirting is complicated …
5.… although it can also be quite an experience and a lot of fun! First dates are an opportunity to meet interesting people, have fun, and have new stories to tell to friends.
6. Although it seems silly, watching a series without waiting for your partner is considered a great betrayal. Some say that, because they cannot wait, they watch a chapter and later pretend if they see it again with their partner. If you are single, one less problem. To enjoy the series whenever and however you want.
7. An important part of our personal development is building resilience. And being single, facing day to day those who tell you “that your rice is going to pass” and those who “judge” you for your singleness, you learn to be stronger and know how to deal better with day to day .
8. Having a partner can be very demanding on many levels … and one of them is economic. If you are single you can forget and stop worrying about gifts from Valentine’s Day!, Christmas and thinking of plans to make with your normally expensive partner.
9. And not only do you avoid spending money, you also avoid conflicts and arguments that, although they should not be the norm in a couple, are often unavoidable. Being single gives you peace and takes away your headaches.
10. If you don’t have a partner… you don’t have to break up with her! And it is that a breakup is often an emotional blow from which it is difficult for us to recover. What is the best solution for a broken heart? That from the beginning, there is no option to break.