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Teaching others is one of the methods of organizing life.
Illustration from the book by N.I. Kozlov «Simple Right Life»
One of the best ways to train yourself to order is to start teaching order to someone close to you or friends. “Once he said, he didn’t understand. Two said — did not understand. The third time he said — I already understood everything myself, but he does not understand everything!
This is one of the traditional joys of the work of a trainer leading psychological groups: the training inspires, first of all, the trainer himself. Therefore, it is most pleasant to conduct trainings on the great science of being happy, on wisdom in building relationships, on the secrets of love in the family … My wife and I are glad when we conduct the training “Love and Family: The Art of Close Relationships” together — after that, look at each other in happy and close eyes are even more joyful. After you inspire the Time Management team with the idea of writing down your goals for the year every day, planning your day is a lot easier.
Try it! If you have someone to take care of, to help someone from relatives and friends organize themselves — invest in it without a doubt.
A friend wants to lose weight — choose the optimal diet for her, support her in this feat for health. Who do you think will soon become the most ardent supporter of the need for will and discipline? You, and you will need it. We began to teach others — we ourselves soon begin to do everything that is necessary — as it should.
How much does perfect posture cost?
Our friends daughter Yulia turned eleven, and her parents offered her the following game: they watch her posture, she follows their posture. They offered fun and offered money.
Children and money is a separate and very difficult topic, in each family it can be solved in its own way, taking into account the peculiarities — children, parents and lifestyle.
In this case, the conditions were extremely simple: if Yulenka catches her parents in a bad posture, they pay an attentive daughter 4 c.u. If Julia is bent, she pays 2 c.u. The conditions seemed interesting to my daughter, she decided to try, her parents gladly lost to her a couple of times, she got involved … Results?
Each family meal begins with the fact that Yulenka begins to chirp cutely, distracting the attention of her parents and creating a relaxed atmosphere at the table. For everyone to relax. And when it seems to her that her mother (for example) has relaxed, it sounds instantaneous, like a shot: “Bent over!” and satisfied calculations: “Today I have already earned 8 USD!” Needless to say, Yulia herself has an ideal posture …
Which is exactly what was required. She began to teach her parents — they taught themselves.
I wonder what other pedagogical technique parents could get their daughter to start paying close attention to her own back? Sadly-dreary parental «Spread out!» every breakfast and dinner? And here — cheerful Twitter, close family communication, beautifully arranged supply of the growing girl with pocket money and the development of her steady attention to the manner of sitting and holding on? Would you pay her $XNUMX for that?