Talk about difficult relationships

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​​​​​​​If something in the family does not suit you in the behavior of your partner and in your opinion he can fix it, you need to discuss this with your partner. Right. And if the partner leaves the conversation? And if the conversation goes after the conversation, the partner seems to agree, but the issue is not resolved? If relations deteriorate with every conversation, but you can’t leave them?

Suppose the husband is a workaholic, busy earning money from morning to evening, comes home late, tired and empty, or even a little drunk after business meetings in a restaurant … His wife asks him to stop it, persuades him, he promises her, but asks for quite a bit more wait — and everything continues indefinitely. Or, on the contrary, the husband lies on the couch and does not plan to earn at all, because there is no work for him at all and he is generally depressed: what to do with him? There are many other similar situations: the wife sits for hours and days watching TV shows and does not look after her figure, the husband sits at night playing computer games and does not help in raising the child…

These are all situations where “talking in a good way” is no longer effective, scandals are meaningless, but divorce still seems not quite justified. What to do? Write a letter or have a conversation in the Difficult Relationship Talk format.

Talking about difficult relationships is a conversation scheme when it’s impossible to talk in a good way: the partner leaves the conversation over and over again. Perhaps the partner is in difficult feelings, he may have a difficult situation, it’s a fact for you: he is not very disposed to the conversation, but the question is important for you and you are ready for a lot of results. Sometimes for a lot, including breaking up relations in case of failure of this conversation.

One way to resolve such issues is to write a letter. Through a letter, it is much easier to convey your position to a person in the correct form without unnecessary negative emotions.

In this case, the letter must be written in several stages: