So why? The author, not a psychologist, but a good journalist, offers to reflect on this topic and even gives two, in her opinion, the most likely answers: 1) you choose the wrong men 2) you don’t really want to get married.
Imagine that the man who is now next to you will never change in anything. Are you ready to continue your relationship with him? If the answer is “yes”, you are doing well and you will need this book only for even greater perfection. But if instead of an answer there is a slight dizziness or something else besides a firm “yes”, then you are deceiving yourself. And that means it’s time for you to face the truth and start changing. At first glance, there is a contradiction in the author’s recommendations: a man will not change, but a woman should change? The answer is that a man is not, in principle, incapable of evolution – but he will not evolve just because someone else wants it, even if he is a beloved woman. So there are two answers to the fundamental question. The first is that you choose as partners the wrong men who are suitable for husbands. The second is that you yourself are not ready to become a wife. Tracey Macmillan is not a psychologist, but a journalist, and perhaps that is why she does not try to protect her readers. But, firstly, harshness is redeemed by a sense of humor, and secondly, the path that she calls us to is the path of love “in relation to oneself and in relation to a man.”
Sofia, 256 p.