Syntonic communication

Syntonic communication — communication is friendly and collaborative, warm and light, cozy for all partners. As a rule, this is communication without raids, without conflicts, with the active use of synthons. An obligatory element of syntonic communication is Total YES — as the desire to get away from confrontation and the search for an opportunity to agree with the interlocutor.

Surprisingly, for more than 100 years, the rules of good manners have not changed much. The concept of the word «gentleman» has changed and developed over time, going from designating a representative of a high class to simply a well-mannered, balanced and unflappable person who adheres to certain rules of behavior. And, of course, the main distinguishing feature of a gentleman was not clothes and a hat, but a strict adherence to principles, the so-called «gentleman’s code.» Here you can get acquainted with the basic rules of communication for gentlemen, which were first published in 1875 in A Gentleman’s Guide to Etiquette by Cecil B. Hartley, see →

How do you remind yourself of the importance of syntonic communication? One of the interesting techniques is “Double Solid Line”. See if this might work for you.

How I introduced syntonic communication into our family

Polina S., a student at the University of Practical Psychology, tells.