Swearing is an emotional, open and strong, usually targeted expression of dissatisfaction, usually comes as a reaction to a mistake or a blunder.
With proper upbringing, instead of swearing, it is recommended to stop the wrong behavior and give an acceptable behavior in the instruction mode.
Mom asked her son to go to the store, he said that he was busy and reproached with displeasure that mom was doing the wrong thing for dinner again. Mom may be indignant, or she may say: “Okay, son, let’s talk about dinner. In the meantime, for starters, apologize for the disgruntled reproaches towards mom ”(Sorry, mom). “Now about the store: either answer me the question of who should go to the store now, or go anyway.”
Another picture from life: mom cleans up the kitchen and swears at her daughter that she does not help her. The daughter in this situation is in a hurry to go somewhere away from her mother, which angers her mother even more and which repels her daughter even more. If instead of swearing, mother would calmly and demandingly say: “Ksyusha, come here please!” (wait for it to come). “I have a request for you — in the kitchen you need to wipe the shelves and wash the pier. When can you do it?» — if the relationship is not spoiled, Ksyusha will quickly do all this. And there will be no swearing.
Good examples of how to solve a situation without swearing: The child loves to play with his genitals
How to wean children from gu.e.x words
For teenagers (rather girls), the fairy tale “About the Princess, the Magic Flower and the Tip from the Cosmos” may be useful.