Strong people are stronger than despair

Despair is a state of affect, where a state of horror, panic, rage and hopelessness alternate. A desperate cry is a cry at the limit of possibilities, and at the same time, a desperate person will be called one who sits with his hands down and motionless eyes filled with horror. Both furious panic and dull depression are all manifestations of despair, and what is common in these states is that a desperate person surrendered, turned off his mind and plunged into emotions, namely, into negativity: grief, longing, apathy, disbelief … Perhaps that is why in Christianity, despair, as an extreme degree of despondency, is considered a mortal sin. In the secular worldview, the attitude towards despair varies greatly … For people brought up in a humanistic approach, it is customary to feel sorry for a desperate person. People brought up more in a masculine approach, the approach of moral duty, consider despair to be an unacceptable weakness for a man and surrender of positions.

How to make helpless despair? This is not very difficult, many children learn it in early childhood, consolidating this state during the next life. So, facial expressions and plasticity: helpless eyes, arms lowered, shoulders lowered — the pose of a loser. Body weight, if a person is standing, is concentrated on the heels. Inner text: It’s over, I failed. Everything is lost. Picture-situation: the world has won, there is no more strength to fight, and no desire either. The world is evil and triumphant, I am defeated and unhappy.