Illustration from Sinton’s forum
The child and his wife did not share something. The child is angry. Of course, you can arrange a logical disassembly on the topic of who has the right to what, who owes something, etc. And it is logical to prove the correctness of one of them. But I handled the situation a little differently.
Me: Are you angry?
Child: Yes!
Me: Go tell your mom.
Child: let’s go together.
I’m fine.
We are coming.
Me: Well, talk.
Child: come on.
I’m fine. The wife is here, the child is angry with you.
The wife begins to make excuses, relying on logic. They say it’s impossible otherwise, understand this …
Me: Let’s just talk about how you feel.
Woman: Wine.
Me: Do you feel guilty about the child?
Woman: Yes.
The child silently goes to his room .. I am at a loss. I follow her and see what happens. And she climbs into the stash, takes out the best candy from there, and drags her mother as a gift. Then they happily embrace and the conflict is removed. Very, very quickly, and, most curiously, no one needs to prove anything. And the logic here was zero point zero tenths.