PSYchology

Good afternoon! (Well, or evening).

My name is Julia Sinareva. I am a psychologist, family therapist, NLP trainer, author of numerous articles and two books «Love is gone, life goes on» and «Married couple: together or side by side».

If we dwell a little more on my creative biography, we can say something like the following. In 1995, I received a higher psychological education at Moscow State Pedagogical University. Lenin, and soon also a certificate in systemic family analysis from Anna Yakovlevna Varga and the proud title of Master of NLP in the center of Andrey Pligin. Since then, I was lucky: I worked on one of the Moscow helplines, then at the Sinton club together with Alexander Lyubimov, traveled around the country with effective sales training, published about four dozen articles in various smart magazines. For about a year and a half, I worked as a trainer on the Practitioner course at the NLP Education Center on Kolomenskaya, and now I am collaborating with the Alexander Lyubimov Training Center and the Gordeev Institute. There are many author’s seminars.

What am I actually doing? Of course, it’s all about a difficult childhood. When I was little, they often put me in a corner with the words: “Stay here and think about your behavior.” And I thought. Well, of course, the symptom quickly spread to other contexts. I also began to think about the behavior of other people (trying to understand why they still put me in a corner). It was then that I suspected the positive intentions of any behavior (perhaps while I was standing in the corner in my room, my parents could calmly talk about their affairs), then I guessed about the age dynamics (after some time it was already impossible to keep me in the corner without strict supervision, and then that stopped helping), and so on. In short, this topic still excites my inflamed brains, and perhaps that is why I began to specialize in the laws of communication and in family therapy.

Over the years of private therapeutic practice, my clients have managed to visit a variety of people — from 4 to 78 years old.

One of my deep convictions is that each of us is capable of and deserves to be happy, and that this opportunity is in our hands. Only sometimes we need a little bit of professional support — a look from the outside, expanding our ideas about potential elections, delineating new perspectives, redistributing responsibilities, unloading limiting beliefs, mediating conflict situations, etc.

With a competent approach, the solution of such issues does not require many years of exhausting soul-searching. Sometimes people get everything they need in just 1-2 consultations. My professional philosophy is to educate clients to understand the patterns of events happening to them and to find independent solutions as quickly and environmentally as possible, based on their own ideas of “best” or “should”.

In addition, one of the most powerful resources for therapy is a sense of humor: when you are able to laugh at your «problems», all the most tragic dramas turn into ordinary everyday situations.

So don’t blame your troubles on karma, weather, genetics, stars, government, or an enemy universe. As the famous proverb says, «If you want to be happy, be happy.» Perhaps, however, for this you will have to work a little …

All interested persons can contact by mobile 8-916-16-777-39 or by e-mail: [email protected]. This e-mail is being protected from spambots. To view it, your browser must have Java-script enabled.

Cordially.

Julia Sinareva.

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