If you risk your loved ones for someone, you may be a bad husband and father, but you are a super friend!
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Friendships can be between close and not close people, friends and buddies. And maybe between them — and not to be.
Common Signs of Friendship
The concept of «friendly relations» primarily includes:
- pleasantness and desire to see each other, to have common interests, to give signs of sympathy,
- desire to participate in joint affairs,
- to help. Help mentally and in life: the willingness to put aside their not the most urgent business and help in case of need, to provide services. Roles: Breadwinner, Toilet bowl, Counsellor, Defender (druzhinnik).
- entertain. Roles: to be a Toy and a Golden Mirror.
- the absence of random (empty) resentment, negativity and hostility.
Private signs of friendly relations between close people
It is good to decorate close relationships with friendships. In detail, the signs of friendship are as follows:
- In the morning — a pleasure to see you. A turn of the head, joy in the eyes, a smile, say something nice, hug or at least touch.
During the day:
- Desire to chat. Share thoughts, feelings, tell something interesting, listen and respond to the story.
Specifically: listened with interest? Did you turn your head? Out of business?
- Empathy for what is not indifferent and offends another, empathy, understanding and support.
Did you say warm words? Did he prove his case or was he looking for something to agree on?
- Willingness and desire to help: “Is there anything I can help you with?”, willingness to accept help (even if it is not really needed) and gratitude for help.
Help offered? Did you receive help? Or refused?
- Compliments, admiration, touches.
Did you say compliments in the morning? About how glad to see — said? Did you hug at the meeting?
- Mutual desire for joint activities, even if one is not very interested in it.
Did you spend time together? How much? And with whom more: with a TV or with a friend?