Race for performance at work, sick family members or friends, mismanagement of the budget, education of children… There is no shortage of stressors in everyday life. And yet, in order for your relationship to stay strong, all of these issues don’t have to take over your sex life.

1. Be in harmony with the loved one

This advice is impossible to apply during short-lived plans, but which is very valuable in a relationship: make sure you are in perfect harmony with the man or woman your heart has chosen. Issues of disagreement can certainly exist in a couple (who can boast of not having any?), But a situation where the two partners view life in an entirely different way cannot create harmony in the relationship. relationship. Do not disdain long discussions, even on controversial or hot topics, because it is only by explaining your points of disagreement that you can overcome them.

2. Create and strengthen your privacy

Intimacy, these are special moments that a couple shares. By definition, these are also moments that the two people do not share with others. And it’s not just about sexual experiences. A romantic getaway, a candlelight dinner, a trip to the other side of the world, dance lessons taken together… So many ways to do things together and get to know each other.

3. Practice extreme sports

In addition to being an activity that only the two of you will share, extreme sports enhance intimacy, as it is a situation of danger (or at least perceived as such), where you you support each other. Having lived through risky situations together and having come out unscathed together strengthens you, on a subconscious level, in the idea that your partner is protecting you and making you safe. From this point on, doing something really risky together seems much more possible, because you have an infallible confidence in each other.

4. Take a bath together

Let us now come to the sexual aspect of the relationship, a pillar without which a couple is not a couple. Taking a bath alone already provides very pleasant sensations. Taking a set will therefore get them both simultaneously. Through its reassuring aspect, this moment of tenderness will allow you to relax to better prepare for the future. The most daring can even try naughty things without leaving the tub!

5. Give yourself massages

Like a bath, massages provide an immediate feeling of comfort, a kind of reassuring bubble. And knowing that the person who is creating this experience for you is none other than your loved one can only reassure you of the love he / she has for you, while relaxing and allowing your mind to escape, if only for ten minutes.

6. Talk about your fantasies

You have already tried different positions and different scenarios, you know what your partner likes. But have you ever spoken openly about what you have never tried before but still dream of trying? This frank dialogue will certainly break up some cognitive taboos, and trying these things out for real (immediately or later) will surely decomplex your relationship to sex as you have practiced it so far.

7. Get out of the bedroom

And when the walls of your bedroom are too familiar to you and remind you of your moral duty as a good father or a good mother, preventing you from giving vent to your wildest fantasies, why not change frame ? On a next trip, try having sex in a hotel or take your sweetheart to a naughty night out. Seeing your partner desired by others will certainly help you overcome certain unconscious prohibitions in your head … To make love better once you get home!

Anton Kunin

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