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Until recently, it was believed that a woman after 50 loses interest in sex. The hormonal background is changing, the libido is weakening, health is no longer the same — where with all this for erotic exploits? Modern research proves that the situation is not so sad and desire does not disappear anywhere. We understand why there are no objective reasons for not having sex after menopause.
Why, then, did past generations of women aged 50+ confirm the idea of medics and reduce sexual activity with age, up to a complete rejection of sex?
1. Believing Sex After Menopause Is Wrong
Such a belief can reduce the libido of the most active lady. Everything comes from the head! Doctors say that with a drop in estrogen levels, libido decreases. So if I want sex, there’s something wrong with me. You have to keep yourself in control, behave decently. But from “decently” to complete apathy is within easy reach.
Modern research proves that testosterone is responsible for sexual desire in both women and men. In gentlemen, with age, the level of this hormone decreases, and in women — on the contrary! That is why the preservation and development of sexual desire after menopause is a completely scientifically justified phenomenon.
2. Health status
It’s no secret that the idea of disease prevention was not as popular among our parents’ generation as it is now. Modern health care technologies have come a long way. If earlier most women came to the age of 50 with a bouquet of chronic diseases, now the situation has changed for the better. Sports and body practices, regular communication with a nutritionist, resorts and spa programs — thanks to a variety of opportunities, the term “health development” has appeared. He implies that with age, health can be strengthened, and not go downhill. This means that along with health, intimate opportunities are not required to fade away.
3. Decreased potency in the second half
This is another reason why a woman may refuse to have a sexual life. For example: you have been married for 20 years, you are truly attached to each other, there is no desire to go “to the left” — and he is no longer as active as before. In response, the woman tries to limit requests, adjust.
But you can do otherwise — take the lead in sex. As a teacher of female Taoist practices, I am sure that with age, it is the woman who becomes the engine of intimate life in a couple. In youth, the man is largely responsible for the brightness of sex. It is often difficult for young girls to relax during intimate contact, to deal with feelings, to understand what they like and what they don’t. The role of a man is to create favorable conditions for revealing the sensuality of a partner.
After the monthly hormonal storms leave our lives, sensitivity grows and thins in us women.
After 30-40 years, we women take on a dominant role. Men in adulthood may have problems with potency (usually due to psychological factors). And our task is to create such intimate conditions in which passions will blaze with fire. It’s not about special underwear or oral sex skills, although this can come in handy, but about the state that we share. A woman who has managed to kindle passion in herself can infect a man with this mood.
I encourage girls of all ages to develop in sex. For example, with the help of female Taoist practices that teach entering a state of passion, they kindle a fire inside.
What will sex be like after 50?
If you enter adulthood in a state of relative health, an energetic, interested, happiness-seeking person, then sex will only get better from year to year. After the monthly hormonal storms leave our lives, sensitivity sprouts and refines in us women. If now sex is a beautiful, bright, life-filled event for you, imagine what colors it will sparkle against the background of even greater sensitivity and subtlety of perception.