Sensuality is not defined the same way for everyone. Intended to awaken the pleasure of the senses, it relates to the sensory as well as to pleasure and sexual desire. How is sensuality characterized in everyone and how can sensual behavior increase desire?

Sensuality designates all behaviors that can appear as sensual, that is to say intended to awaken the pleasure of the senses (therefore, the sensory). In fact, sensuality is not necessarily linked to sexuality: one can be sensual in order to be erotic, or simply for pleasure. However, sensuality also helps arouse sexual desire. It can be behaviors, actions, sensations, which arouse desire in someone. We do not all have the same perception of sensuality, and something that turns someone on may not have an effect on another person. Indeed, the way our senses react is very related to personal feelings, and it is difficult to generalize about this kind of feeling.

As we have seen, sensuality can awaken desire and create sexual tension. So, how to be sensual and indeed how to arouse desire in others? Sensuality can be expressed through body language, through contact, through language or even through a context or a scenario. All these parameters can create desire and create an erotic climate between two or more people. This desire is personal, but it can be accentuated by the desired person. The stronger the desire, the more the sexual arousal and attraction will be. You can completely desire a person without knowing them, simply because you find them attractive and / or sensual. Finally, the origin of desire is not limited to charm, physical appearance or feelings that one carries towards the person. It can result from the combination of several parameters that make you attracted to someone.

There are no universal criteria regarding sensuality. Some people will find that shyness is sensual, others on the contrary that a strong self-confidence is desirable, etc. Likewise, there are no physical standards that make a woman or a man more desirable. Charm and appearance are purely subjective, and it is in fact impossible to impose any common criterion on all people. A sensual man or woman is therefore a person who wants to be: sensuality is experienced differently depending on the character. Likewise, some will prefer suggestive behaviors, such as erotic phrases or close physical contact, while others will find it more sensual on the contrary to maintain a certain distance and gradually stir up desire.

We are all sensitive to the way a person moves, moves in space, performs gestures, etc. This way of being and behaving, which is called body language, can indeed arouse desire in some. Thus, if we know that a person is sensitive to it, we can increase his desire by trying to be sensual. This can consist of adopting your posture: paying attention to your gestures (touching your hair, nibbling your lips, etc.), but also the way of standing (straight back, carrying your head, bust forward, etc.) or even adapt your approach. These little signs can also be interpreted by the person you want to seduce: if you blush, often touch your face or hands, this may be a sign of a disorder related to the feeling of attraction.

A sensual person is above all a person who assumes responsibility and is comfortable in his skin. Do not necessarily seek to attract attention or be in the demonstration. The natural can be quite sensual! If you liked a person and it’s reciprocal, your attraction will surely participate in making you sensual. This is because when we experience desire, we send signals to let the other person know, and sometimes it is not necessarily to change their behavior to arouse the desire.