Whether energetic or gentle, slow or fast, erotic massages aim to increase sexual arousal by stimulating erogenous zones and are excellent foreplay. What is a good sensual massage and how is it performed?

What we call foreplay are the sexual practices that take place before what is considered to be the sexual act itself (ie penetration, oral or anal sex). Among them are caresses, kisses, or erotic massages.

The preliminaries gradually take the partners to the height of their excitement, before starting sexual practices. Indeed, these erotic gestures allow to install a carnal atmosphere between the partners and to raise the sexual tension between them. They are also used to prepare the body before sexual intercourse, and in particular to lubricate the sexual organs so that penetration is done more easily.

In conclusion, in addition to bringing pleasure, foreplay is therefore important for the smooth running of sexual intercourse. 

On our body, certain so-called erogenous zones increase sexual pleasure in particular when they are touched in a sensual way. These parts of the body are rich in nerve endings, and their stimulation helps fuel desire and arousal.

Thus, for successful foreplay, it is important to concentrate your caresses and massages on these areas. In both men and women, the main erogenous zones are the genitals (vulva, penis, clitoris, anus, etc.). There are also “secondary” genital areas, namely the breasts, neck, buttocks or even the lower back.

These areas vary from person to person, and each person may have parts of the body where they are particularly sensitive. To know the erogenous zones of your partner, a massage all over the body can allow you to identify them and thus insist on them. 

The aim of erotic massage is to stimulate parts of the body which will arouse the excitement of the person. As we have seen, the erogenous zones are places to be particularly favored in caresses. These can be light, like touches, or more supported, alternating energetic massage gestures.

Do not hesitate to vary the types of contacts and their pace. So you can alternately brush the skin with your fingertips, then knead, scratch or tickle it. The secret of a good massage lies in the diversity of the caresses and their intensity. Likewise, you can also use your tongue and kiss certain areas, lick them or nibble them. 

First, the person receiving the massage must be in a comfortable position. A massage will be all the more sensual and sexual if both partners are naked. You can also undress your partner during your massage, to build up the excitement little by little.

To make your massage more sensual, you can use oil, which will allow your hands to glide better over the skin. Finally, don’t start with the erogenous zones right away: for example, start by gently massaging the back, then slowly work your way down to the buttocks and genitals. Alternate between these different areas, to keep the sexual tension at its peak.

Do not neglect the other members like the feet or the thighs, which can also be erogenous zones or at least sensitive to the caresses. 

Tantric massage is a sensual and passionate exchange between the two partners, which allows self-abandonment and gives the recipient a feeling of deliverance and relaxation conducive to the principle. Ultimately, tantric massage constitutes an essential step towards tantric orgasm, which we can have without necessarily stimulating the sexual areas.

This orgasm is perceived as a powerful exchange between the two partners, a kind of fusion that leads to total ecstasy.

This massage is only performed in an intimate and nude setting. There are no techniques or movements strictly speaking: a massage that is tantric will be felt more in its intention and in the erotic intensity of the gestures. Finally, the idea is to stimulate your partner’s whole body in different ways, with slow and subtle gestures.