PSYchology

The girl imitates adults.

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Yelling at a child is a bad parenting method. Yelling harshly may be justified — and simply necessary — in extreme cases, but as a way of communicating with children, this is not a method.

Parents who often yell at their child(s) are almost always bad parents.

When mom screams, kids know, «Yeah, mom lost control again.»

Every mother and every father has already lost control and yelled at the child more than once. We experience a particularly low threshold of embarrassment with our own children. Well, with spouses. In general, it is quite surprising that we shout most often at people who are especially dear to us. In relation to outsiders, we are much more restrained.

Whoever is constantly forced to restrain himself and control himself must “let off steam” somewhere. And most often this happens on our own family members, and the child receives all the negativity accumulated by us during the day if we yell at him.

Good parents do not yell at their children, as a rule. Everything can be negotiated calmly. Tell him what you want. If you do not like something, do not be silent, accumulating anger and irritation — calmly and firmly tell the child, then you expect him to do what he needs to do. Does not obey — do not shout, but repeat. Doesn’t listen — figure out what’s the matter.

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