Who said sex has to last for hours? Quicks (from the English word quick – “quick”) can be a great way to diversify your routine. True, this may require preparation.
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Couples experienced in the field of quick sex are able to instantly assess the situation – the corridor is almost deserted, the door can be propped up, the table cleared, the blinds closed. For some, Kviki becomes something of an extreme sport. “It seems we haven’t tried it in the museum yet? How about in a hot air balloon?
Choose the right place
Tip for beginners – it’s best to practice by starting in places where the chance of being caught is relatively low. For example, in an office that is locked with a key, or in a restroom of a restaurant.
“Danger is often the number one reason people go for quickie,” says Joel Block, a sex therapist and author of The Art of Fast Sex. – We want thrills, but at the same time, too much excitement can get in the way. Find a balance.”
Get ready
“I always take off my shoes in advance, so as not to be distracted later … In order not to say: “One minute, I’ll just take off my shoes …” Yes, and the laces do not untie from excitement … ”- wrote Sergey Dovlatov in the story “Reserve”.
The best improvisation is the one that is well prepared. This fully applies to fast sex.
The brightness of sensations largely depends on how carefully you think through all the nuances. Make sure you are wearing comfortable clothing that is non-staining, wrinkle-resistant, and easy to unfasten. And don’t forget about condoms if you don’t want to rush to the pharmacy, leaving your partner to wait in a remote corner of the park.
It is especially important to have a lubricant on hand. “It happens that a woman is aroused, but her vagina is still not hydrated enough,” explains sex therapist Lisa Thomas. – For some, lack of lubrication is a common thing. It is better to take care of the lubrication in advance so as not to spoil the pleasure.
Tune in
The limit for a quickie is no more than ten minutes. This means you can skip the foreplay and get right down to business. “There is an old cliché – a woman needs foreplay, a man needs a place,” says Joel Block. “Therefore, a man should make sure that his partner is happy with everything.”
In the first two or three minutes, it is better to focus on stimulating the erogenous zones. Show tenderness, do not think only about how to achieve orgasm. After all, fast sex is all about adventure, an exhilarating experience. It doesn’t always need a climax.
Choose a good pose
If this is your first experience and you want it to go well, the most suitable position is face to face, standing, half-sitting, or leaning against a wall.
“The obvious advantage of this position is the ability to see each other’s reactions,” says Lisa Thomas. “Kissing and eye contact are very important to create an atmosphere of intimacy.”
In addition, you can always understand if the partner does not like something or he is tired.
“If you want more rough, animal sex, try entering your partner from behind,” Lisa Thomas advises men. – In this position, you can move faster, adjust the angle of penetration to give your partner pleasure.
The lack of intimacy can be made up for with the help of imagination – for women, the scenario of submission and rough sex can be very exciting.
Further – it all depends on your ingenuity and ability to listen and understand the other. Fast sex (if you want it to be truly memorable) requires more sensitivity than regular sex – remember this.