At a time when everything is going fast, quick sex is asserting itself as a trendy practice. Because the sex in the couple is timed, or because a quickie spices up the sexual routine of the partners, a brief and intense report can be a good solution to various problems. How and where to practice? The keys to a beneficial quick sex.

Nowadays, it is common practice to obtain the item of one’s quest almost instantly. It can be the same with the orgasm: the quick sex makes it possible to reach the pleasure quickly.

Couple sex: slow sex or quick sex?

While a sex therapist recently published a book entitled, unambiguously, “Slow sex, making love in full consciousness”, the question returns to the front of the stage: short and intense or long sex and preceded by foreplay, what are the benefits? If the urgency of sex quickly and well can be a source of excitement to its height and a renewal of desire, taking your time to make love allows you to explore new forms of sexual pleasure, for an orgasm tenfold. Each type of relationship has its advantages, therefore, and the choice for one or the other is made by the lovers at the time: certain periods of the life of a couple are more conducive to quick sex when the partners will be tempted to try slow sex at other times.

Quick sex as a brake on romanticism

Without prior preparation, without preliminaries, the quickie is the realization of a sudden and intense sexual drive. In this context, romanticism is unlikely to make its mark. By throwing on each other to consume their desire for sex, the couple do not take the time to create a romantic atmosphere, and do not waste time stimulating the desire of the other to the extent that it is supposed to be acquired. Anti-romantic, quick sex is not for all that harmful for the sex in the couple: the partners can satisfy their libido by pure physical need, without systematically considering the sexual act as the manifestation of their mutual love. A brake on romanticism, yes, an obstacle to physical pleasure, not necessarily. 

Why practice quick sex? 2 main reasons:

Partners do not necessarily have time for a long sexual relationship.

Children at home, mismatched schedules, heavy workload … lovers can find themselves in a hurry in their daily lives for many reasons. Under these conditions, it is undesirable that they stop all sexual activity. Because if the sex within the couple is not the only ingredient of its longevity, it participates in it. But also because men and women have, if not needs, desires to satisfy. The quickie then emerges as the inevitable solution, for instant and intense pleasure.

Quick sex is a good way to rekindle desire.

Daring, quick sex requires daring, letting go and giving free rein to animal impulses. When partner sex has become routine over the years, as partners experience low libido, a quickie alone can rekindle the fire. By practicing a fast sexuality, without romanticism and for the carnal pleasure exclusively, the lovers spice up their daily life. 

For a quickie to orgasm, it is still necessary to practice in the right conditions. The first rule: improvisation. In this context, sexual intercourse must occur at the very place where the lovers are at the time of their sexual drive, within the limits of decency. And to add to the excitement of the partners and the anti-conformism of the practice of quick sex, this is the opportunity to test unusual sexual positions and scenarios.

Unless they know each other perfectly, the couple does not necessarily reach orgasm quickly. If quick sex does not give rise to enjoyment, due to lack of time, it nevertheless has the merit of upsetting the routine and providing pleasure.