“Winter” child Sonya loves winter more than summer. But he wants to love him too. How – says psychologist Anna Skavitina.
“I love winter much more than summer. In winter, I am cheerful and calm, but in summer my mood is bad … Why is that?
Sonya, 5 years old
Anna Skavitina, children’s analyst:
“Sonya, every season has its pleasant sides and entertainments. Did you know that the seasons are similar to us in character? There are, for example, “summer” people – active, cheerful, sunny. “Autumn” – more calm, measured, thoughtful. “Winter”, like you, love warmth and comfort. And they often hold back, “freeze” their strong emotions. “Spring” – on the one hand, they are more anxious than others, and on the other, they like to invent something. Many children, like you, love winter more. Not only because there are long magical New Year’s days in winter, but because these days they are with their family. In the summer, families often leave. Parents continue to work and send their children to their grandparents in the country or in the village, in rest homes or in different camps. It often happens that children, leaving their mother and father, miss their family and feel sad. And those who are very bored do not like summer at all, so they, like you, have a bad mood in summer. You will grow up a little, get used to such a summer life and come up with some wonderful activities that are possible only in summer. And then the summer for you, as they say, will sparkle with new colors. It will become easier for you, and you will begin to enjoy the summer, as well as other seasons.