It often happens that a man has no obvious reasons for problems with potency, but there are problems. This happens almost always when a man has been treated for prostatitis and the causes that caused it, and the libido is in no hurry to return. This is where the exclamations of urologists turn out to be just right. This is a psychological problem. Having survived a long period of illness, having repeatedly failed in bed, a man becomes a hostage to his psychological complex in front of intimacy – “I won’t succeed” – and it doesn’t work out. And again, the woman will have to act as a “psychotherapist”.
There are several tricks that a woman can use to help a man regain his self-confidence and get rid of his “brakes”.
I kept thinking whether to write them here or not. In a good way, wise women know about them, and men, as a rule, do not realize that these tricks were applied to them. And let them not guess. I know perfectly well that men will read this section for women (and what makes them participate in lesbian forums under the guise of a woman?), and for their own good, this information would be better left out of their hands. Therefore, I took out part of the discussion of “psychotherapy” to restore self-esteem separately in the treatment of prostatitis (now it is becoming a method of treating not only prostatitis). If a man subscribes to the methodology, then again there is hope that, having approached the issue responsibly, he will not read this section, but rather let his woman read it. Well, if he reads it, it’s on his conscience. But here in the public domain, I can not write it. I just don’t have the right. This is a purely feminine theme.
So. Your man has problems with potency, although there are no obvious reasons for this. This is the psychological aspect of the problem. He himself will not be able to cope with this complex. There is only one way to get rid of him – to make him believe that the problem is gone, that everything is working out as expected. And then he will get rid of the fear of failing in bed, which prevents him from being relaxed and confident in intimacy. Without deliberating for a long time, I immediately turn to the specifics.
The effect of surprise is very effective. When nothing says that tonight he will have to fulfill his marital duty. So that he does not have time to go in cycles in his thoughts about the brakes. Once and for all, and nowhere to go. Especially this maneuver is suitable somewhere on vacation. There are no children around, you are in a hotel, he is rested, he drank a glass of wine (especially good for relieving brakes) and … “Darling, I want you!”. So to speak, violation of the regime with hygiene. No “wait, I’ll take a shower.” Here and now. If a shower is so necessary, then let him first take it, and after leaving the bathroom, he will find a nymph in bed. It excites and works 100 percent.
Another trick – dear, you’re tired today, let me give you a massage. After 5-10 minutes of massage – “Wow! What a big one you have!” Let me massage him. And after a couple of minutes he didn’t notice how you already … The same effect of surprise, but in a different variation. At the same time, it is better that the previous time this massage was limited to one massage, but this time … it was not limited. Then the effect of surprise will be absolutely natural.
In general, the effect of surprise can be used in a variety of variations. What imagination is enough for – that’s good. The whole point of surprise is the spice added to the process. Unbridled passion, giving rise to intoxicating desire – this is the effect caused by a sudden impulse. At the same time, as a rule, you forget about everything that can distract and interfere. All this can be advised to a man to impress a woman (guys, read – I see everything! J).
But the next technique is the real psychiatry. And I can’t post it to the public, as I wrote above. Read it in the method of treatment of prostatitis.
If you dare to this therapy and cure him – you are a real woman, a real keeper of the hearth and truly love your man. He will definitely appreciate it. When a man feels like a man with his woman, success accompanies him and everything else. He takes more and more new heights that he puts at your feet.