These are no longer just speculations of alarmist mothers, but scientifically based conclusions.
No, not British scientists. Quite serious Norwegian, who have not yet tarnished their reputation with various dubious studies. They found that children who spend too much time in kindergarten suffer from severe stress, the consequences of which last for life. Compared to the “home” kids, their stress level is as much as one third higher.
How much is too much, you ask? We answer – eight hours or more. That is, if you are one of those whom your parents took away last, know: you have stress since childhood.
Scientists at the Norwegian University of Science and Technology found this out by measuring the stress hormone cortisol in children. A total of 112 babies, aged from one to one and a half, were examined. So there is no doubt about it. Toddler stress does exist.
“Children suffer from the fact that there is no mom or dad next to them,” explains Professor Mary Britt Dugley, head of the study. – The kids are not yet able to clearly explain what causes them discomfort. Therefore, even the best nanny cannot help them. Hence the stress. In the wake of this stress, children even provoke conflicts with other babies.
And again about the consequences. Yes, they can stay for life. The fact is that increased doses of cortisol at such a young age affect the development of the child’s brain. The kid will be more shy than his “home” peer. And it will be worse to control yourself. This is where the roots of childhood, adolescence, and then adult hysteria grow.
However, everything is fixable. As soon as the baby returns home, the level of cortisol in his body drops. And parents can minimize the consequences of the resulting stress. How? Very simple. Remember the Beatles: “All we need is love”? And you can’t argue with them.
– Have dinner together, sit with your child, read a book to him – you need to make up for the lack of attention that he encounters in kindergarten, the researchers say.
In general, emotional contact. The child should feel your warmth. Including literally – hugs are welcome.
Well, one more thing. Try to pick up your child on time. We understand this is difficult. But it is even more difficult for the baby to remain in an empty group, waiting for someone to finally come for him.