Are you blaming me for everything? Yes, I blame you!
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Accusation, as a deliberate act, should be distinguished from everyday accusations, when reproaches and dissatisfaction are thrown essentially thoughtlessly, in the mode of an interpersonal game, out of habit or because of a bad mood.
Blaming another is a serious act… This is no longer a prick, but a blow. Children are ready, without hesitation, to throw everyday accusations at each other, but stop before the question: “Do you really mean that your brother broke your toy on purpose? If you say so, he will be severely punished. He will stand in the corner for half an hour and you won’t play.» As a rule, after such a serious request, the accusation is not confirmed.
Blame and breakup
Deliberate accusation is a blow, the consequences of which can be irreversible. Throwing a serious accusation is almost the same as announcing a breakup. But then — why throw accusations when you can just leave? See Accusation and breakup