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In everyone’s life, something unexpected happens, for which the person was not ready. But it has already happened, time cannot be turned back, and in order not to forget how to enjoy life, you need to find advantages in such circumstances.
Sometimes remember people without arms and legs, who do not lose heart and rejoice every day! I have such a friend – Sergei Burlakov.
How to become an optimist
It has already happened, it is not known what to do with it and what to do next. It’s okay, you need to pull yourself together, think it over, analyze and find a way out. Finding pluses for yourself in this unpleasant environment, perhaps it’s good that it happened, it should be so.
Perhaps you can learn something from this. Someone upset someone – this is an opportunity to learn to understand each other better, which means that this was not the case before. Broken arm – it’s good that the head is intact. Lost your wallet – think that there is something more important and it is nearby.
If the electricity in your house is cut off during the day, it doesn’t matter! Exercise, read a good book, collecte unnecessary junk and throw it away, you’ve been planning on it for a long time!
If the lights were turned off in the evening, that’s not bad either. You can take a break from the computer and have a romantic candlelight dinner! It is difficult to learn to restrain yourself in difficult or unpleasant situations.
But if each person is treated with respect and love, acquaintance or not, then everything will be perceived in a completely different way. After all, everyone deserves to be patient, respect and care for him.
Useful Tips
You need to respond to rudeness calmly, with dignity, to a compliment – 😉 with a smile, to difficulties – with a constructive approach.
To learn how to find something good in every unpleasant situation, you need to change your attitude not only towards people, but also towards yourself.
Stop communicating with those who bring chaos and irritation into your life. You can change yourself, but others are more difficult.
Do what you like more often, and with this help disconnect from bad thoughts, spend more time with loved ones and dear people. You need to learn to cheer yourself up and never puzzle over those tasks that cannot be solved at this time.
And if something can be solved now, then you need to make an effort. This will only add experience, knowledge, self-confidence.
It is important to learn how to manage your emotions and get rid of unnecessary attitudes that often interfere with maintaining your inner good mood. Increasingly, you need to repeat to yourself that all mistakes can be corrected, changed. Diseases can be cured, damaged things can be replaced.
If you see only the bad in a person, he will forever be bad for you, and you will find the positive aspects and your dislike for this person will disappear.
Say goodbye more often and do not accumulate resentment. So in life there will be less empty anxiety, irritation, and there will be more understanding and kindness.
Writer Will Bowen with purple bracelets
Purple bracelet
The ability to see the good can be learned. The writer Will Bowen proposed this method: you need to put on a purple bracelet on your hand (you can have any color), and live at least 21 days without complaining or cursing.
If a person breaks down, he needs to change the bracelet on the other hand and start the reporting of days from the beginning. Its effect exceeds all expectations!
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