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Problems of family education of children modern, relevant solution recommendations
Family parenting problems arise from misunderstandings between parents and their children. And in order to improve relations, you need to be able to negotiate. And for this you have to develop the correct model of education.
Parents’ mistakes when raising children – current recommendations
Raising a child is a complex process and its main goal is to prepare a baby for adulthood. In modern society, independence and independence are valued. And parents need to develop these qualities and direct them in the right direction. But for this you have to gain credibility with the baby. And it is important that it is built on kindness, openness, love and attention.
Family education problems are solved through dialogue.
Wrong family parenting models:
- Suppression tactics or dictatorship. If a baby is punished for any wrongdoing, something is constantly forbidden, humiliated and beaten, then this develops cowardice, deceit and cruelty in the baby. He is afraid of his parents and tries not to contact them.
- Hyper-care. In this case, parents decide everything for the kids, do not allow them to take the initiative, and control every step. It is difficult for people who grew up in such families in adulthood. After all, their parents did not teach them to be independent and to adapt to the world.
- Hands off tactics. If the baby is left to himself and is not controlled by adults, then he will find himself in an unpleasant situation.
Another incorrect parenting model, when the baby becomes the center of the universe. In adulthood, it is difficult for him to establish relationships with others. After all, he does not know how to adequately assess his merits and demerits.
The current method of education is democracy based on cooperation and trust between family members. Thanks to this model, it is easier for parents to find mutual understanding with babies, and conflicts rarely arise between them. Psychologists’ recommendations:
- Don’t undermine the other parent’s authority.
- Never sort things out with a baby.
- Do not enter into educational discussions if you are angry or annoyed.
- Learn to negotiate with your baby and listen to his opinion.
- Become your baby’s protection and support.
- Do not indulge in whims and punish for wrongdoing.
- Make time for your child, even if you are tired.
- Do not suppress the personality of the baby and let him take the initiative.
- Become a role model.
To grow a strong and independent personality out of your baby, find a “golden mean” between love and severity. But if you can’t manage to establish a relationship in any way, then do not hesitate to contact a psychologist.