There is everything in this hysteria: the revenge of life, and the struggle for power — the desire to prove that he is someone else here, and not just an empty shell. Probably, there is something here from childhood, when he so attracted the attention of his parents, and they felt sorry for him …
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Problem dynamics are the psychological causes of situational problem behavior, as a rule, attracting attention, struggle for power, revenge and avoiding failure. See Causes of Problem Behavior
It is better when healthy dynamics take the place of problematic dynamics in a person: attention to others, willingness to cooperate, love and desire for development.
If it seems that a woman’s failure to get married is actually a fear of family life, avoiding future difficulties and troubles, it makes sense to clearly articulate this as her real obstacle, set her the task of independently changing her attitude towards the family and, for example, write a vivid essay «My happy family future.»