Anna Sedokova recently posted a picture in her underwear. And provoked violent controversy in social networks – for the umpteenth time.
I apologize for the harshness, but this whole story – and dozens of others like it – seems to me utter hypocrisy. People subscribe to the pages of stars who have never hidden their figure, starred for men’s magazines in candid photo shoots – why? Then, to see these sultry photos more often. Admire, envy, motivate yourself to exercise and take care of yourself. To be closer to the idol, as they think. There are many reasons, but the essence is the same – people want to look and see.
And then suddenly the idol becomes pregnant. It happens to women, really. Immediately, the followers turn on the cruel prude mode and start broadcasting their invaluable opinion to the idol’s page: “What do you allow yourself? The whole country is looking at you, and you are in underwear / swimsuit / neckline. Cover up! ” And all why? Because pregnant women, in the opinion of these ladies (for some reason, there are no men in this choir. Strange, right?), Just right to put on a veil, drape a curtain on their stomach and modestly sit in the corner until the baby is born.
Here is the last example: Anna Sedokova, who is now expecting her third child, posted on her Instagram a photo of six months ago – either in lingerie or in a swimsuit. Beautiful, slender. “It’s strange how six months ago I considered myself plump. And why don’t we value what we have? ” – Anna asks. The singer promised: that she will give birth and return to its former forms. And then he will love himself without any doubt in his own harmony and beauty.
“Now the #tyzmat comments will begin,” predicted one of Anna’s subscribers. And I was not mistaken. Of course, there were plenty of compliments among the nearly 600 comments. But people like that: “You have two daughters, and you take such candid photos, shame and shame! Children will look at your photos and will be shocked! ” – writes a certain Arina, without any hesitation referring to Anna on “you”.
“Does your man scold you for such photos?” – asks another curious maiden.
“And the future generation is leveled to uploading such photos … Shouldn’t a girl have at least a bit of a riddle? Or all at once can be shown already “, – informs Sedokova unknown to anyone Irina (the author’s spelling and punctuation are preserved. – Approx. WDay).
And this is not the first time that Anna has been scolded for being photographed in a swimsuit.
Attention, the question is: why? What changes in those nine months when a woman is carrying a baby? More precisely, for those five to six months when the belly becomes visible? Does she stop being a woman? She puts on a halo, is everything earthly alien to her? Why does her body suddenly become vulgar?
Take a look at the “pregnant” and “nude” photo shoots of the stars: Natalie Portman, Beyoncé, Demi Moore, Cindy Crawford, in the end, Ksenia Sobchak and Katya Gordon. Are they vulgar? God be with you! They are beautiful.
“Pregnancy is a sacrament! – the bigots shout, eagerly looking at the photo of Anastasia Stotskaya, who is also on the demolition. “I’m tired of having my belly, it’s everywhere.”
Sacrament? Why would you? Why should a woman hide the fact that she is expecting a child? Why shouldn’t I be proud of it? And with her body, after all, why should a woman be ashamed of it?
Anastasia, by the way, didn’t reach into her pocket for a word: “Well, unsubscribe and don’t look! This is a natural process, I am, how to put it, pregnant! Do you know what happens to a woman ??? It’s like telling a person that you’re waving at me with your braids, or your nose, or blinking your eyes, I’m tired of it already. How evil aunts are. And laughter and sin is honest “(the author’s spelling and punctuation are preserved. – Approx. WDay).
Or maybe it’s not about them, not about the pregnant beauties, but about yourself? As they say, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. As well as vulgarity. Maybe all these calls for emphasized modesty are a reflection of your own by no means immodest thoughts? You are not embarrassed because you see a beautiful woman. And from the fact that you understand: a pregnant woman causes desire. And for some reason you are ashamed of it. This is strange. Like pregnancy and sex – they are from different galaxies. Not different. This, we will reveal to you a secret, directly related phenomena.
“If you don’t like it, sign off, don’t look. She has a wonderful body. A motivator for many girls. There is nothing shameful about that, ”- like this comment.
Interview
Do you think pregnancy and sexuality are compatible?
Click sexuality doesn’t turn off. She is either there or not.
A pregnant woman needs to think about the baby, not about attractiveness.
You need to love your body always, in any condition.
You don’t need to project your dirty thoughts onto other people’s photos.
Motherhood is sacred. Lust is out of place here.
Modesty adorns a woman. You can’t flaunt, especially a pregnant woman.
If you have something to show – why not show it. If you don’t like it, you don’t have to watch it.