If you want to offer your chosen one a polygamous relationship, you need to be prepared for the fact that he may leave you with another partner. This is exactly what happened to the heroes of our article.
One of the users of the Reddit portal shared her story. According to her, she felt absolutely comfortable in marriage, there were no prerequisites and “alarming bells”. Therefore, her husband’s proposal to become polygamous shocked her. You never expect this from a person with whom you seem to live calmly and happily.
“He came to me with a request for an open relationship, obviously having already studied this issue. I was so sure of our connection that I thought: why not? Even though I didn’t really want to. Maybe I should have stood up for myself more … But, perhaps, everything should have happened like that, ”the narrator admits. In an effort to persuade her, the husband spoke about all the positive aspects of polygamy, assuring that it would be a great solution for both him and his wife. Of course, he decided to keep silent about the negative aspects of an open relationship.
However, in reality, everything was not so rosy. The couple were at work all day. And when there was a free evening, instead of spending time together, as before, the spouse went on dates with other women.
“It really hurt me. I tried to talk to my husband, but he manipulated me. Now I see it,” she shares.
The Reddit user was very worried about such a drastic change in their marriage. The constant absence of her husband prompted her to build a personal life outside the home. She began to communicate with other people on the Internet and finally met a man on the Internet with whom she fell in love. “I have never experienced such feelings before. Sex and conversations were much better than with a spouse. To be honest, I think we are much more suitable for each other, ”she admits.
The woman opened up to her new lover and talked about her polygamous marriage, and also about the fact that she never wanted it. The man, in turn, invited her to start over, creating a monogamous relationship with him.
The narrator abandons her «polygamous» husband, who actually pushed her into the arms of another
“Now he suffers every time I go somewhere. This has been happening more and more lately. But I just answer him with the same words that he told me when he left for other women, ”she says.
The woman shared this story with Internet users, and almost everyone supported her, saying that she did nothing wrong. «He’s opened Pandora’s box, now you’re both facing the possible consequences. That is why, before starting such a relationship, there should be a lot of discussion. Before you immersed yourself in that lifestyle,” one commenter wrote.
Text: Nadezhda Kovaleva