Pictures of happiness and love

​​​​​​​Pictures of happiness are pictures-images, applying which to life, we learn: “This is happiness!” If there are no pictures of happiness, you can live in the most comfortable conditions, a lot of luck can fall to your lot, but it will never occur to you that you are happy. The one who has many (enough) pictures of happiness and does not forget to use them, notices in life (draws out of life) his happiness.

In order to break out of the closet of sadness into the World of light and joy, start recording those moments that bring you joy.

… You leave the dark entrance, and the sun is shining outside, the buds are swelling, and the smell of spring is in the air. Happiness? Yes! Remember this moment, inscribe in your body the memory of happiness from going outside, and soon you will feel happiness every morning as soon as you leave the entrance!

… Or — you are lying on a sandy beach, you hear the sound of the sea, and a pleasant, slightly cool breeze blows on your skin … You relaxed and felt such peace and bliss that you felt like a harmonious part of the beautiful World. Remember this moment. Fix it with all receptors.

Collect such pictures, absorb such pictures into yourself, and you will soon notice how much easier it is for you to live with a smile and experience happiness.

Yes, but in addition to pictures of happiness, there are pictures of love: those of our inner images, applying which to life we ​​learn: “This is love!”

Sometimes pictures of love are very simple: for example, to meet and kiss. I really want to kiss — and kiss. And kiss, feeling the pleasure of both your own, and the pleasure of your beloved … your beloved …

Or: you wake up and there are fresh flowers on the table that your husband brought you. And this is not March 8, but an ordinary day. Why? Because you are dear to him, because he loves you!

Yes, everything is fine, but what is the fundamental difference? And does she exist? It seems that the image of love is the same image of happiness, only the beloved person is present in it. And, in fact, what difference does it make what we are happy about: a delicious chocolate bar or a pleasant romantic evening?

There is a difference, but not for everyone. For a person who by the word “love” means consumer love, she is love-want, there is no difference between pictures of happiness and pictures of love. The bearer of such love is primarily concerned with his personal interests and desires, and he perceives love and a loved one only as one of the sources of pleasure.

For such a person, a loved one is not much different from a delicious apple: “You are my sweetie!”. Love for an apple is manifested while eating it, when it gives pleasure with its taste. And when a core remains from an apple, it ceases to be of any interest, and love ends there.

With such love, care is quite possible, but this care is not about the beloved, it is care about oneself. They also take care of expensive and necessary things so that they serve and please longer.

However, there are other people — those for whom there is love that gives, it is love-care. The bearer of giving love really cares about the one he loves. For him, the interests of a loved one are either on the same level as his own, or higher. And therefore, for him, pictures of love will be such situations where he gives happiness to his beloved, and from this he becomes happy.

In pictures of giving love, happiness is given to loved ones, and in pictures of consumer love, happiness is taken from loved ones.

What kind of love do you have?

Video from Yana Shchastya: interview with professor of psychology N.I. Kozlov

Topics of conversation: What kind of woman do you need to be in order to successfully marry? How many times do men get married? Why are there so few normal men? Childfree. Parenting. What is love? A story that couldn’t be better. Paying for the opportunity to be close to a beautiful woman.