To excite fantasy and strong feelings, it is not at all necessary to see and touch a partner. Sometimes a voice, the right words and intonation are enough. In self-isolation mode, telephone erotica spices up even long-term relationships.
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“Once, at the dawn of our love, when we were not yet married and met for several months, my future husband and I liked to talk on the phone for a long time at night. There were no smartphones back then – there were regular wired phones. He saw me off a date, we said goodbye, we didn’t want to leave, but we knew that there would be a continuation in a couple of hours, when he gets home, ”recalls 48-year-old Alena.
What happened next? There was only voice and fantasy. “In those moments, I was excited no less, if not more, than during some of our face-to-face meetings. I slowly, “with a delay” told him how I touch my lips to his ear, whisper to him how I love to touch his cock, how I love his smell and taste.
And he told in his velvet baritone how he unbuttoned my blouse, how he put his hand behind the belt of my skirt and touched my buttocks. It was an incredible feeling of spiciness and enjoyment, although we stayed at different ends of the city.”
The freshness of a long relationship
Alena and her husband used the same technique later, when they parted because of business trips, trips with children or on business.
“Once Igor came down with a broken leg in the hospital. Then the first mobile phones appeared – large, black, heavy, with retractable antennas. He took it with him to the clinic. By that time, we had been married for 7 years already. But in nighttime conversations, we felt like the same young and passionate lovers who just can’t part at the entrance. ”
Igor, to the surprise of the doctors, quickly recovered and escaped home in two weeks instead of four. When asked what the secret was, he laughed it off: “Ask for my cell phone.”
“I don’t understand those who are now suffering because of separation, and even more so from the fact that they have to be together all the time. After all, this is temporary, but even in self-isolation, you can maintain the sharpness of sensations and attraction.
My husband is over 50. I am almost the same. But we still use this technique. Sometimes we play, dispersing in different rooms. And we fantasize again. After such a telephone warm-up, our sex is amazing. I, despite 27 years of marriage, still want my man, and he me.
Experiment for beginners
Phone sex is a great way to test a potential partner for passion, sincerity, and willingness to experiment. Fantasy and imagination are our most powerful erogenous zones. Sometimes the ability to stretch the pleasure of knowing each other from acquaintance to a real meeting is a strong dope for passion and desire.
“Those who get along with their own voice, intonations and allow themselves to be frank, get more bonuses on the same dating site. Both I and my interlocutor, while we are still just browsing each other’s profiles, live in fantasies.
We see the photo and imagine something of our own about the other. In reality, this may not be the case. And if we try to talk first without video, it will give time for recognition, on the one hand, but also for intrigue, on the other, ”says 27-year-old Stella.
It seems to her that such an erotic acquaintance by audio is a reliable security measure on dating sites. Several times she realized from the conversation that this was not her man. And once it was a frank conversation on the phone with one man that helped create a long-term relationship.
“He sent me a private message. I went to his profile. Well, not my type at all! I didn’t even answer. Then a few days later he wrote again. I didn’t answer. But I have an Instagram account in my profile. And soon I received an audio message there (there is no such service on the dating site – audio messages).
I heard his pleasant voice. He began to tell me so many incredibly hot and at the same time very tactful, without vulgarity, words. You know, when a man so frankly admits that he gets excited just looking at me, it cannot but touch. And I felt that this man was interesting to me.
We continued to communicate via audio messages. Then they switched to online conversations, but so far without video. I saw him a month later on Instagram. And it turned out that in the photo and video it is completely different. Soon we met in person. We’ve been together for two years now. And I can’t imagine what would have happened if he hadn’t sent me “his voice” then.