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😉 Welcome new and regular readers! Friends, self-development of a person immediately stops, if only it is worth declaring to yourself that you know a lot.
It is not for nothing that all great people are and remain constant students of Life. For them, personal self-development is the norm.
Sometimes it happens that after graduating from a university, a person stops his self-development, that is, he does not continue to study independently. It seems to him that the knowledge gained is already enough and there is no need to develop further. Most people think that the knowledge gained will be enough for the rest of their lives. However, this is a big mistake.
Human self-development
Any process has two vectors along which the process flows. The first is when the process develops and improves, and the second is when the process degrades, fades, collapses.
Observe any object of wildlife and you will see signs of either extinction or development. Man is a part of this nature, and he has two vectors: development and degradation.
As soon as we stop the process of our development, the growth vector loses its strength. It is gradually moving from the vector of development to the vector of degradation. And the person begins to give up his position. Mental ability first, then physical ability.
Then the person wonders where everything has gone. He begins to complain about the lack of time, age and unfavorable external factors.
Self-development every day
Self-development of a person is his concentration on self-improvement and self-realization of his goals and desires. These are activities that improve self-knowledge and personality, develop talents, improve the quality of life and make dreams come true.
These are changes in your life that will throw you out of your comfort zone. If you do not change, then nothing will change in your life. If you want and believe, then you need to take the first step towards change.
It all starts with daily practice, step by step. These processes have changed thousands of lives and led to the success of many people. Self-development can manifest immediately and have an impact on your life today. Do you not like the position you have come to? It’s time to change that now!
This path is difficult, there are a lot of obstacles on it. Your development and success always go hand in hand.
Everyone needs to develop – any person can change himself for the better if he wants. As there are no two identical personalities, there are no two identical paths of self-education. It is difficult to give any advice here. Each person has his own psychology and philosophy of life.
Types of self-development:
- spiritual;
- physical;
- material;
- personal growth;
- intellectual (reading books, seminars, trainings, lectures);
- creative (the desire to create something new);
- in the professional sphere – advanced training.
Where to start?
- Planning, the ability to follow the planned plan and schedule.
- Controlling your own thoughts and emotions.
- Development of will, self-improvement of volitional qualities.
- Ability to relax on your own.
- Development of love for the world and other people.
- Improving professionalism in your business.
- Healthy lifestyle.
The advice of psychologists, wise people and acquaintances who have achieved success can also help you. But it is important not to forget that these are just tips. The decisions in your life are up to you to make.
In addition, there are self-development films on the Internet that you can watch.
You are clearly following your plan. You are engaged in your physical improvement, read books on relevant topics, attend lectures, seminars, communicate with like-minded people. Months go by, you continue your studies simply because it has become a style of your life.
And then, at that very moment, the quantity suddenly turns into quality. You wake up as a completely different person. Now you have powerful resources for further personal self-development. How you dispose of them further depends only on you.
How not to give up when something goes wrong?
- Do you lose heart and have lost faith in yourself? Think about the darkest time of the day just before dawn. You have enough reasons to keep moving forward.
- There is only one good reason why it is permissible to surrender – this is death. As long as a person is alive, he can always change the situation.
- The man is much stronger than he thinks. We are given only those tests that are within our power.
- Believe in yourself. The right path is never easy.
- You have tremendous support: your family and close friends.
- Personal self-development changes not only you. Thanks to him, you can change the world or the lives of other people for the better.
- It is better to do something and regret than to regret what you did not do.
- Personal self-development is a way to prove yourself and prove to yourself what you are capable of.
- If someone has already been able to do this, then so can you.
- Mistakes also help self-development. A negative result is also a result.
- Often forces leave us literally one step away from success.
Self-improvement is not easy. But the path will be mastered by the walking one. Tune in to measured and calm work on yourself, and just take the first step.
Self-development – what is it?
This is constant work on yourself, this is the development of personal qualities and self-improvement. In this process, a person should concentrate on his goals and his own desires. In order to achieve them constantly acquire new and new knowledge. This process is the basis for achieving success in life.
Of course, this is not an easy task, but a person can do everything, because nothing is impossible in life. With a strong desire, you can turn your innermost dreams into reality, because “impossible” is just a word.
You need to passionately want to change your life and yourself, constantly work. It must be remembered that the impossible is possible.
Each person sooner or later comes to the idea of self-realization. To someone, such a thought comes at a young age. Others begin to self-develop as a result of the crisis in the second half of their lives.
Everyone wants to get: success, happiness, prosperity, money. However, at school and at the institute there are no sciences like: the achievement of wealth, happiness, success.
Therefore, your self-development will affect your health, the amount of joy in life and happiness. Only improving new skills will help you and your life.
You need to act: watching endless serials does not lead to progress. If you want big money, try to find someone who has it. Chat with this person, he will show you the path of development.
If you want joy and happiness, contact those who are happy. Even if you are in a remote village, the Internet is a wonderful way out.
Your self-development is the key to success!
Case of life. Once upon a time there were two neighbors. Let’s call them A and B. As time went on, they became retirees. Pensioner A decided to master the Internet. B – was of the opinion that the Internet was for young people and continued to watch television series. Pensioner A did physical activity every day: jogging in the mornings, swimming on Saturdays.
B grumbled, referred to his age, that it was too late to start running. Pensioner A mastered the science of contextual advertising and began to slowly make money on the Internet. Pensioner B continued to watch TV series and complain about his health. 7 years have passed. Pensioner A began to travel across countries. Unfortunately, pensioner B passed away at the age of 67.
Self-development books
- Dan Waldschmidt “Be the best version of yourself!”. Personal self-development. Read more about this book in the article “Dan Waldschmidt”
- Josh Kaufman “My Own MBA”. This tutorial teaches the essential fundamentals of business practice. The book will prove that proper self-education is sometimes not inferior in quality to MBA courses.
- Kelly McGonigal “Willpower”. This book is based on a course on strengthening willpower by a Stanford University faculty member. He is sure: willpower can be trained like muscles. The more you train, the easier it is to use.
- Les Hewitt, Jack Canfield, and Mark Victor Hansen Life Whole. Teaches you to set ambitious, achievable and close goals. It will help you focus on the main thing and give up the secondary. You will receive recipes on how to make it more effective.
- Tina Seelig “Do It Yourself”. Tips for those who want to leave their mark. At the very least, you can copy and start your own business. How to change your life at the most.
- MJ Ryan This Year Me. The book is for everyone who wants to start fulfilling their promises to themselves, to make changes for the better in life.
- Sharon Melnik “Stress Resilience” – 100 Effective Techniques for Staying Calm. Professional business psychologist Sharon Melnik shares a methodology that has helped thousands of people become stress-resistant.
- Brian Tracy “Get out of your comfort zone” Book number 1 Personal self-development. It has been translated into 40 languages. This book made Brian Tracy who he is now – the star and guru for all who strive for efficiency. The book talks about how to achieve solutions to complex problems, leaving your comfort zone.
- David Allen. “How to get things in order.” How to become the master of your life. The methodology is based on the result of the author’s twenty years of work. It became super popular among Russian managers even before the book was translated.
- Tal Ben-Shahar, The Perfectionist Paradox. About what perfectionism is and how to overcome this obstacle on the way to a happy life.
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