Passion love

Passion-love is a kind of love where the power of attraction overshadows the mind. Love as a passionate attraction is not just a strong liking. Most of us know people we really like but don’t like, and some of us have even felt passionately attracted to someone we didn’t particularly like.

We are accustomed to calling love as a passionate attraction love, although passion is more likely to dress up in the clothes of love than it is love. As Aleksey Klimenko said: “Passion is when you want to devour a person. And love is when you want to feed him. Love is a kind attitude towards a person, it is care, it is the joy of being able to give to him. And passion is the desire to get a person in order to get further from him everything and always what you want. And I want a lot. This desire for insatiable consumption is what we call love?

Although — yes, in order to get so much from a person, in order to possess him, in love and passionately desiring to speak and speak tenderly passionate words, and look after, and pretend that he cares … All this usually flies off like an extraneous husk, if passionately in love understands that only a bummer shines for him and there is no longer any point in caring and caring. Then this “supposedly love” is easily melted into real hatred, where a loved one can be killed and even needs to be killed, because she didn’t give what she wanted from her so much …

However, when a passionate lover is tamed, and the beloved is protected, it’s very cool to watch the suffering of a lover and understand that it’s all because of you and he will do anything for you. I became a queen, I can command — pleasure fills the soul …

And for the artists of the pen, love-passion is one of the most striking topics where you can wave your pen wide and sell the people a work that will be bought by those who miss love-passion …

A selection of vivid quotes from their fiction and about philosophical literature

Voluptuousness can be the darkest human horror, anticipating all the horrors of hell …. (O. Mirabeau). The unconscious desires of the human essence are really shocking (P. Gurevich). Male love scares (L. Tolstoy). In the study of lust, it is not the actions themselves that matter, but the thoughts behind them (S. Blackburn). “With love, the fire starts from above, and with lust, from below” (I. Shevelev). “In sexuality, the highest and the lowest are united.” «The anus area, like the area of ​​the lips, is positioned to become the point of attachment of sexuality to other bodily functions.» (Z. Freud). “… The fact that just the most intimate personal ties that exist between living beings are fully saturated with aggression — you don’t know what to say here: this is a paradox or a banality” (K. Lorenz). «I know of nothing more disgusting than a frightening face engulfed in the fire of cruel lust.» “If it is in this form that we appear before women, they really must find us repulsive” (J.-J. Rousseau). — A selection of quotes from the book «The reverse side of love or the experience of trepanation of sin …»

The seed of the decay of love is already planted in the sexual act itself. N. Berdyaev “The true threat in our time is not the abomination of Eros, but simply its bankruptcy” (P. Bruckner). No matter what model marital relations are built on, “the psyche requires more and more strong emotions” (D. Guzman). “… The soul is fed up with everything that is monotonous, even with complete happiness” (A. Stendhal). Variety is demanded by lust, hungry to defile what has not yet been defiled. “Voluptuousness is the process of exchanging action for pleasure” (R. Barth). “One kind of love destroys its other kind, because a person, by virtue of his nature, having satisfied his hunger, loses interest in food” (G. Marquez). “A woman is a well-laid table, which you look at in different ways — before dinner and after it” (pogov.). “… Annoyance and irritation arise from a high appreciation of what causes our desire, because it sharpens and inflames love; however, having enough gives rise to coldness in us, and passion becomes lethargic, dull, tired, dormant” (M. Montaigne). “In love, Only yesterday, insanely frenzied, Having achieved the goal, boring and not happy, Some kind of melancholy embraced” (D. Donn).

“Few people think about why our genitals perform two such contrasting functions: the production of life and the removal of dead waste from the body?” (S. Varakin). The Creator, having combined the organs of reproduction with the organs of excrement and giving a person the opportunity to experience “evil joy” from the desecration of another person, apparently believed that he would not find a better guarantee of the preservation of the species. Obviously, regardless of whether we are talking about ordinary genital contact or about “sex with a human face” (V. Gitin), the fundamental question in exacerbating the moral disease called sexual shame is the question of which part of the body we “love” with what associations we inflame our imagination and from what ideas and sensations we derive the highest pleasure.

Video from Yana Shchastya: interview with professor of psychology N.I. Kozlov

Topics of conversation: What kind of woman do you need to be in order to successfully marry? How many times do men get married? Why are there so few normal men? Childfree. Parenting. What is love? A story that couldn’t be better. Paying for the opportunity to be close to a beautiful woman.