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Why do parents of special kids have to be protected from scientists and parliamentarians with an Internet flash mob?
Thousands of posts on all available social networks. And there is one hashtag for all: #yanealkash. Not a week has passed since Olga Kryshtanovskaya, Doctor of Sociology, announced on Channel One that most children with disabilities are born in associal families and to women who are promiscuous in sexual relations and who love alcohol. These words can be compared to a bomb exploding. Each mother of a special child took accusations of frivolity and abuse of alcohol at her own expense. Parents staged a flash mob on social networks and demanded an apology from Kryshtanovskaya. It is quite fair, because this way you can hang a label on everyone if the baby has health problems. Olga apologized. It would seem that the incident is over, but the hashtag # yanealkash is only multiplying. Woman’s Day figured out how it all started.
The scandal was counted by the deputy Igor Lebedev. He saw a video on the Internet about a girl without arms. The adorable little girl Vasilina learned to eat and clean on her own, although she does this with her feet and does not require sympathy for herself at all. But Lebedev sympathized, and publicly, on his Twitter: “Why are such children allowed to be born, after all, this is a martyr, not life ?! Modern medicine determines pathology in advance ”. And a few minutes have not passed when the deputy was accused of fascism, they say, it is not for him to decide who will live and who will not.
Lebedev tried to expand his thought in J. J. But even there it all came down to the fact that if a child was found to have a pathology before birth, should he be allowed to be born.
“When the whole life from beginning to end turns into suffering, it is disgusting. There is no “humanity” in allowing this to happen, ”Igor Lebedev said.
“Nit” is one of the softest comments in the deputy’s LiveJournal.
A whole program on Channel One was devoted to heartlessness. It aired on September 14th. The host tried to be objective. An obstetrician-gynecologist was called to account, who explained at what stages of pregnancy genetic abnormalities can be accurately determined. The fact that the baby does not have arms or legs can be said with absolute certainty for a period of 10-12 weeks, genetics – up to 16 weeks. During these terms, it is still possible to have an abortion for medical reasons. But many mothers refuse to terminate their pregnancy, they believe that the doctors were wrong. Olga Kryshtanovskaya took the floor next. Here are her words without abbreviations:
“These are mainly drunken families, the asocial lifestyle of mothers who give birth from different men.”
“There is a tremendous amount of hypocrisy around this topic. Different sides are hypocrites. Because this is the stigma, if you think that the genetic makeup of society is actually an important thing, you are a fascist. This stigma is immediately hung on all people who are trying to somehow at least start discussing it. Until we identify the reasons why we are growing disabled, we will degrade. We have to discuss this.
In my opinion, what is the matter here. The reasons for disability are different. But the most important reason is drunken conception, these are not at all cases when DNA malfunction or mutations of some kind arise there, these are fractions of a percent. These are mainly drunken families, the asocial lifestyle of mothers who give birth from different men. Sometimes there are many, many children unconscious. A woman has two choices: the first choice is to give birth and raise a sick child, and the second choice is to have an abortion. In my opinion, her most basic third choice is to give birth and abandon this child. We are full of orphanages, different boarding schools, where these children really suffer. They get into this system and suffer. They have an extremely low life expectancy, quality of life. If the state does not react to this in any way. How is it? The state should regulate this. There is a question when a normal family and mom and dad decide. But if this is a family, in order to receive some kind of maternity capital, payments … I believe that the state should develop a regulatory program. “
The sociologist herself put a label on the parents of special children, they say, most are associates, period. The point in this matter was not given by the flashmob # yanealkash. And Kryshtanovskaya apologized, explained that she meant just the third group of women who give birth to sick children and then abandon them in infant homes and boarding schools. But if the first side simply could not explain what exactly he meant, then the second side went further and, in the heat of indignation, almost ranked all the parents of special children as saints. Say, the shortest path to God is martyrdom. If a sick child is sent to you, this is a gift.
Stories of moms of special children
Woman’s Day chose the most poignant stories from the flash mob of parents of special children on social networks. Scroll the gallery to the right.
Stars who raise special children
Evelina Bledans and Semyon – the boy has Down syndrome.
Irina Khakamada and Masha have Down syndrome.
Anna Netrebko and Thiago are autistic.
Singer Danko and Agatha – cerebral palsy.
Konstantin Meladze and Valery – autism.
Sergey Belogolovtsev and Zhenya have cerebral palsy.
Fyodor Bondarchuk and Varya – developmental lag.
Colleen Farrell and James – Angelman Syndrome.
Toni Braxton and Diesel are autistic.
Sylvester Stallone and Sergio – Autism.
Robert de Niro and Elliott – Autism.
Interview
What advice would you give to an expectant mother who found out that she is expecting a child with a pathology?
Terminate the pregnancy.
Give birth to a baby. It is not the mother’s business to decide who will live and who will not.
Leaving the baby after birth in a special institution, doctors know how to take care. And let the mother visit the child and pay for the maintenance.
Raise the baby herself, even if this requires sacrificing everything.
Children are happy in any case. Of course, give birth!
Other. I will answer in the comments.