During intercourse, I feel quite severe pain, so I never really had sex, because I always stopped everything quickly, the pain was not bearable for me.
I heard from the doctor that everything is fine with me in all respects when it comes to the structure of the vagina, and that the problem is rather in my head. I don’t know how to deal with it. My problem is probably not related to vaginal dryness, because we use a moisturizing gel … ~ bronka5
Pain during sexual intercourse may be caused by, for example, infectious causes, but then, apart from intercourse, there are also symptoms such as itching, burning of the vagina and vulva. It can also be caused by insufficient mucus secretion during intercourse, which is associated with a poor degree of sexual arousal. Then you feel a definite improvement after using lubricants. Finally, if full sexual intercourse has not yet taken place, vaginismus cannot be ruled out, although then gynecological examination would be difficult or even impossible. However, there are women who allow themselves to be examined by a gynecologist, especially if they use small speculae. So you should seek advice from a gynecologist sexologist who will assess the possibility of sexual intercourse, and not a gynecological examination. I encourage you to do so because leaving the situation on its own creates frustration that negatively affects sexual intercourse and creates a vicious circle.
It is also worth talking to your partner about erotic gadgets that increase the sensation and at the same time minimize pain. These include the Ohnut Cushioning Ring available from Medonet Market.
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