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Children: all addicted to video games

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Whether they are edutainment or listed in one of the flagship categories of the moment (strategy, adventure, combat, sport, etc.), video games are now part of the universe of 70% of children. Diversified at will, enriched with childish graphics or, on the contrary, rather realistic, there is something for all tastes and all ages … The only “problem”, not negligible for the family wallet: it is the cost, since It takes an average of 30 euros per game, and much more for the support (PC, portable consoles or to connect to the TV!). At this price, the purchase deserves reflection and… discussion with your children (unless, of course, it’s a surprise!). Without forgetting, once the game is in their hands, to take a critical look at this virtual world that fascinates them so much. Take the trouble to enter the world of multimedia, much more within your reach than you think …

Under the watchful eye of parents

To know the content of your children’s video games, there is nothing better than to stay by their side and observe them at the controls of the controllers. The opportunity also for you to be a little more “in the know”! Do not hesitate to share these moments with your family and take the opportunity to comment on the game with your children, exchange your points of view and make them aware of the possible violence of certain scenes. It is good to adopt an attitude consistent with the education you want to give them so that they know exactly what games are and are not allowed for them. Especially if, during the afternoon with friends, they would be tempted to experiment with the latest novelties from the big brothers …

Good gaming reflexes

 – Play in a well-lit room et at a good distance from the screen to avoid visual fatigue;

 – Difficult to recommend maximum playing time. Use your common sense, knowing that younger people get bored more quickly. Otherwise, set up breaks of at least 10 minutes every hour ;

 – If your children play in a network on the Internet, they should always use a pseudonym to preserve their identity and notify you if they receive a suspicious message. It’s up to you, too, to watch them … 

 

 Hidden messages? Historically, games have been used to instill socially dominant values ​​in young people. And this logic applies of course to video games. Families must be aware that the values ​​they convey are not neutral (self-realization through the accumulation of resources, worship of the strongest, etc.) and that it is necessary to ask questions about the video games of their children . »Laurent Trémel, sociologist and author of numerous books including Video games: practices, content and social issues, Ed. L’Harmattan.
Stay in control of the game!

Video games also have their strengths, introducing young people to multimedia, allowing them to evolve in a virtual world that values ​​them, to exchange experiences with friends, but also to express certain aggressive impulses. Despite everything, it is good to channel too much practice, even if it does not necessarily lead to behavioral problems. Also react if your child gets too used to isolating himself in his room to play. It is up to you to set the rules and priorities (why not, for example, establish a schedule to be respected?…). Because playing video games is good, but it’s even better after homework or between two other activities, just to vary the pleasures …

The V-Smile console, in tune with the times!

Publishers such as Vtech have been able to adapt to the world of children to offer them a wide choice of edutainment games. The V-Smile console takes them on fun and educational adventures where interactivity is king. Ideal for 3-7 year olds, and no unpleasant surprises (on the contrary!) For parents! 

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