PSYchology

A simple person is a person who builds his life simply, does not use complex techniques in communication. In communication, a simple person does not set the task of influencing, does not select wording and intonation, he simply says what he has in his soul.

In interaction, a simple person acts on the principle of “because”. The opposite principle of “in order to” is the principle of not a simple person, but a communicator (and also a manipulator).

Pros and cons of the life of an ordinary person

When a person says everything that he has in his heart, such simplicity often turns out to be inadequacy, bad manners and goo.

Directness and openness in a difficult discussion easily turns out to be a source of conflict. «You bastard, that’s who you are!» — «And you went!». Diplomacy in such simplicity is clearly not enough.

The intentions of a simple person without their processing by good breeding can be inconvenient for others, and even acquire an illegal character.«Chick, I want you!» (with subsequent natural-natural impulses …)

In business, communicators are in demand; in everyday communication, ordinary people are more loved.

Directions of development

Naive or wild simplicity should take shape within the framework of upbringing and culture. On the other hand, at the highest stages of development, simplicity turns out to be one of the most important guidelines. Simplicity is when it is no longer artificial, but natural for a person to take care of other people, when a person always has in his soul what is needed for the interlocutor, when he always has the mood that is needed for business and life.

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