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😉 Hello lovely ladies! Let’s have a bachelorette party, talk about female friendship and question its existence.
Real friend
Many girls will confidently assure me that such exists. I will not deny that everyone has their own opinion on this matter. In my opinion, female friendship should exist on certain conditions, for example, on the following:
Confidentiality
I mean, you should be wary of leaking the information that you are afraid of spreading. For example, about their love affairs, the number of sexual partners, family conflicts, money problems, etc.
Agree, it will be very unpleasant for you if a large number of people find out your secret. Including males, and in general those who care about this, in principle, should not.
But one way or another, most women have a very long tongue. They just can’t resist telling their friend’s worst secret to another close friend. At the same time, having washed all the bones of the owner of the secret and weave new details and sayings into the story.
And so on from person to person. Broken phone effect. And as a result, the last listener learns just an incredible story about a little-known person. He will be sincerely surprised how this is possible, possible and where people are looking. This is how gossip is born.
Therefore, before telling a painful problem to a friend, think about the consequences a hundred times. And to avoid any spread, have confidence in the person and in his mouth under lock and key.
For some reason, the phrase “No one can be trusted” immediately pops up in my head … But on the other hand, we need to speak out, get rid of this mystery strangling from within, hear empathy, support, advice, in the end.
Girlfriends are needed not only to share good news and show off their sweet lives. But also as a vest, in which no, no, but also to cry.
Support
A real friend is obliged to help, support in a difficult situation. Whether it is parting with a loved one, financial difficulty, life problems. For example, the loss of home, or a delay in menstruation, a quarrel with parents, leaving work, and so on.
In such difficult situations, any person needs another person. Strong and reliable, who pats on the head, rushes in at any time, at any hour. It will calm you down, give you good advice, help you get back on your feet. He will allow you to stay at home for a while, call you a taxi when you are lost and there is no money.
Communication
Chatting with a friend is not necessary every day. But communication still needs to be maintained as often as possible, even if you or she does not have any problems. Sometimes we all need someone dear to you to just ask how you are doing.
I just talked on the phone, went shopping with you, chatted in a cafe, went to a club. Or he just came to visit for tea and discuss the latest events in his life. Discuss men, lovers, child development and so on! You never know topics for conversation!
Selflessness and cordiality
No one needs envy, greed, anger, jealousy. Therefore, if at least one of these concepts has become familiar or is constantly present in your friendships, this friendship is over. Or there was no friendship at all.
Dear ladies, it is incorrect to show off a new fur coat to a friend who has the latest panties. And a friend with torn panties is jealous of an expensive fur coat. You need to feel a friend, sincerely worry, be ready to sell a fur coat, fill her refrigerator, buy a pair of panties. No other way!
Ladies, do not look at other people’s men, and if they themselves climb up to you, then “send them in the forest”. I don’t think it’s worth explaining why. Know how to listen to the cry of the soul and at this moment do not brag about your wealth, smart husband, good luck in life.
And never envy anyone. Material wealth is generally a relative matter, since today you have everything, and tomorrow you may not.
And most importantly, reciprocity
All that I wrote above about female friendship will be completely useless if there is no reciprocity. Not only should you be the only one to follow all the points, but also your friend.
Only after mutual support, help, communication, sacrifice will there be confidence in a person, devotion, love and pure friendship. Which is sometimes stronger than family ties and family ties.
And finally, before reproaching people and demanding a best friend from life, think about which friend of you is …
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