Oksana Fedorova beauty tips

“You must confess your love to yourself every day”

What do you think beauty is? Bright makeup, perfect fit and trendy clothes? These things are important, but they are not enough. Beauty is when appearance, figure, clothes live in harmony with your inner world. It is enough for men to be neat and reliable to impress. And for us, beauty is our domain. And we must be very confident in our territory.

This feminine self-confidence starts with love. To yourself. To be honest, we don’t love ourselves, we don’t understand, we don’t accept. We want to change something in ourselves, we are dissatisfied with something. But the first step on the path to harmony is to accept yourself for who you are, to love yourself, to please yourself.

The famous healer Alan Chumak once advised me the following exercise: “Try, Oksana, confess your love to yourself for several days in a row. At first you will see that it is extremely difficult to do this. Internal barriers and complexes interfere. You will immediately understand what you don’t like about yourself. And then you need to come to terms with this. Then new doors will open. “

I started doing the exercise. The first few days there were tears, it was very hard. But each time it gets easier and easier. And after a while you begin to understand that you are so alone. There is no such second on this earth! And God endowed each woman with his own, special gift. This zest must be found in yourself. Therefore, each of us should go to the mirror in the morning, look at ourselves, smile and say “How beautiful I am!”

It’s so easy to see the beauty in others. What do you like about yourself? Maybe you have the brightest smile or you are girlishly modest. Or you have very delicate skin and long soft hair, loud laughter. When a woman finds this seed in herself, this zest, she cultivates it, and after a while it bears fruit. Which she enjoys herself, and, of course, the people around her appreciate it, admire and love.

Don’t look at others, listen to yourself. You are unique.

“Your presentation of yourself affects the attitude of others”

Now let’s talk about how we carry ourselves. When I first came to television, I had an accent, and I needed to get rid of it. And now I, having already graduated from the university, possessing some kind of life baggage, suddenly realized that I was so squeezed, so not sure of myself. All the time I wanted to whisper something quietly, to be invisible.

And then the teacher sternly told me: “So, straightened her shoulders! You’re an exclamation mark, not a question mark! Head up! And loudly, clearly: “I am Oksana Fedorova!” We trained it for so long! But then I saw what positive results it gives. Your presentation of yourself affects the attitude of others.

Posture is very important! Everything in us is inherent in nature. A child is born free, liberated. He has an open resonator, his voice is clear, even plug your ears. He moves freely, he has no restrictions. But then some situations, stresses, injuries begin to happen in life, and every year a person closes down more and more, slouches over. An internal tightness is formed, which interferes with freely expressing one’s opinion. It often does not allow a person to simply follow the path that he wants.

I advise everyone to straighten their shoulders, and keep their head proud and high. Previously, girls weaved long braids, and like it or not, the braid pulled its head back, the chin was raised, the look was calm and full of dignity. Now we no longer wear long braids, but the question of posture is not removed from the agenda! Everyone straightened their backs! We cheered up a little and remembered this state of lightness as natural for ourselves.

Then the clothes will sit beautifully, and the silhouette will be flying, you will be visible. Don’t be afraid to voice your opinion. Do not be afraid that some qualities that you do not like in yourself will be noticed by others. It’s OK! Yes, I have such grace, I am so – and that’s it, there are no questions for you! Don’t be afraid to show yourself.

“Observing Nature Helps Develop Freedom”

Observing nature helps to develop freedom, lightness, emancipation. As a cat stretches – smoothly, gracefully. This is who you need to take an example from! Of course, everyone goes through a period of growing up, when at the age of 13-15 you don’t like something about yourself, you are not like everyone else. This will surely pass, and a beautiful butterfly will then grow out of the caterpillar. This butterfly needs to be nurtured in yourself. You need to cherish the beauty in yourself – that which is bestowed by nature.

One more thing. What is taste known to help you look stylish? And this is a sense of proportion. It must be observed in everything. And in communication, and in relationships, and in relationships with the opposite sex. And in how you look, what you put on, what makeup you put on. It is better to let it be overly muted than too bright and defiant.

It is very important to learn to feel this measure in oneself, in order to neither subtract nor add. Nature loves balance and harmony. It is no coincidence that in nature, all the brightest is aimed at being aggressive and repelling an attack. When others see something excessive, it alarms them.

Oksana advises to take care of yourself always

You need to always and everywhere behave appropriately and look appropriate. In modern parlance, we call this the dress code. It is very important to listen to it carefully. If there is some indication in the invitation, an assignment from teachers, teachers, there is a topic for an event or institution, you must correspond.

· It is advisable not to wear black when going to the hospital, for a birthday or a wedding. This may not be interpreted in your favor.

· Many girls (especially in our country) sin by wearing high heels even for a picnic. If you have a long promenade, you need flat-soled shoes. And the right clothes. It should be easy and comfortable for you.

· And as for the handbag. If a man rushes to help and wants to convey it, then the handbag exceeds the allowable size. It is advisable not to carry heavy bags, take smaller and more elegant ones.

And as I always say to be beautiful you have to be neat. Untidiness is read by others very easily: by a fallen-off heel or cracked nail polish, by an not quite fresh shirt or a stain on trousers. Even what seems imperceptible is read. And it gives you a feeling of insecurity. Be careful even in the smallest detail.

· The skin of the face should be washed and well-groomed.

· If the makeup is fresh and moderate, do not overlap the natural beauty.

· Lubricate your hands with cream. Shaking hands with a dry, tiptoed hand is sometimes disgusting.

· If there is varnish on the nails, then it should be neat, the nails are evenly filed and of the same length. For example, I just don’t paint my nails to make them look natural and fresh. And there is no need to think, as if the varnish would not crack.

· Arrow on tights may appear at the most unexpected moment. Therefore, carry spare tights in your purse.

Always speak correctly!

Pay attention to the ability to express your own thoughts. The way you communicate with your friends, peers, colleagues. You can look beautiful in a photograph, but when you enter into a dialogue, in five minutes you will have the impression that you will make with your speech.

These are the main mistakes we make.

· For some reason we do not want to use “put on”, we say “put on”. This is a common mistake that even appears on television! Putting on ourselves, dressing someone else – that’s right.

· We are used to the expression “the best”. “Best” is already a superlative degree. But if we want to say “the most”, then it is correct to say “the best”.

· More beautiful and beautiful. It is correct to put emphasis on “and”.

My dear, develop your speech, pay close attention to it. Because verbal communication is very important. Due to illiterate speech, an unpleasant impression, a good contract may break or a quarrel with a friend may occur. Speech is one of the main components of a modern real little lady.

“We must behave in such a way as to give a man confidence in himself.”

I would like to draw your attention to the fact that a woman is given by God to be gentle and soft. Let a man change this world with loud sounds, ridiculous gestures, this is his path. We are women, we are soft, gentle, fluid, flexible. We must behave in such a way as to give a man self-confidence, we know how. A woman is a woman to be loving, affectionate, gentle. These qualities are rarely found in a man. But it is very desirable for us to develop them in ourselves.

You need to speak calmly, without fussing, without creating a noisy space around you. Then you are more likely to be heard. No need to shout loudly. Say what you want with confidence, be truthful, say it calmly and thoroughly. because any fuss violates natural harmony.

Gestures also have a profound effect on the impression we make from the outside. Try not to make any sudden movements that bring you out of a smooth state. And try to always smile. A light smile disposes the interlocutor, helps to form a pleasant impression about you. I am convinced that smiling helps to change the world for the better.

“Often we ourselves prevent a man from showing up”

Time passes quickly. Very soon you will leave the care of adults, enter into an independent life. From you, your actions and decisions will depend on how well and harmoniously life will develop. You will definitely become a mother, find your family hearth, create a family and be responsible for the climate in your house. And this is our most important natural function.

There are so many negative examples around when a woman takes on a masculine role, incorrectly sets priorities in life. The modern world forms such an opinion among girls: first you need to make money, make a career, and then we’ll think about everything else later. It is not true. After some time, the woman realizes that she has not made a career, that God forbid she had one child, but there is no family. All because it violates the natural harmony of life.

Every woman has her own other half. It is important to start a family first and become a mother. And then you can be both successful and socially significant, to realize oneself both in public life, and in those gifts that the Lord has endowed.

When a woman takes on male functions, The universe sees, “Yeah, something is wrong here. She earns money herself, and does repairs in the apartment, she does everything herself! Why does she need the other half? “ And so the years pass.

How many strong women we have who pull everything on their shoulders. It doesn’t have to be that way. And we ourselves are to blame for this. You cannot take on an unbearable burden, carry it and carry out those duties that do not depend on us. You need to leave something next to you for the man. Because often we ourselves prevent a man from manifesting. Yes, we are so uncomfortable, impatient, but we need to learn this.

Oksana is involved in charity work and helps young children

I wanted to convey to you the main points that I myself went through and which I consider the most important. In conclusion, I would like to say one more thing. If you decide to take something in life or do not know what to do, you doubt whether your decision is right, ask yourself one question: “How would love do in my place?” Always act out of love for others, and any decision you make will be the most correct.

Never be afraid to be too kind to someone, never be afraid to smile or say an affectionate word. In order for all your external data, skills and acquisitions to play, become attractive to others, enrich your soul. Patience, mercy, kindness and gentleness.

Love yourself, respect yourself. Tell yourself: “I want to change, develop, live freely and beautifully.” Do not be lazy to overcome fatigue and do something useful for yourself every day. This is what forms the personality. You are worthy of happiness!