Expectant mother at the suggestion of N.I. Kozlova took on the following obligations to the child.
My obligations to the child:
1. Love the child.
2. Be happy. Only a happy mother can have happy children.
3. Love yourself, respect your desires and needs, forgive yourself for mistakes and allow yourself to be weak, praise yourself and appreciate.
4. To love and be loved, build harmonious relationships with a man, give the child an example of a happy family.
5. To be healthy in order to give birth to a healthy child and be able to be his support and support for a long time. And also to convey to the child the principles of caring for their health.
6. Be beautiful and feminine. To give the girl women’s secrets, and the boy an example of femininity.
7. Love, respect and care for parents and be an example for the child in this.
8. Take care of the world around me (home, porch, yard, city — where I can do something and change) and be an example for the child.
9. Be financially successful (help your husband be successful, inspire him to do great things) and pass on the skills to achieve success in business to the child.
10. Create a positive mood in the family, the atmosphere at home.
11. Engage in your own development, creativity and be interesting to your husband and child
12. Do not strain and do not get upset if you do not always succeed in being an example and a model for the child.
13. Accept your child as he is, without demanding supertasks from him and listening to his desires and needs.
14. Spend time talking with your husband and child, socialize and relax together, leave work for work, and family for family.
15. Rest and recuperate, please yourself, sometimes retire to understand yourself and your tasks, rethink the past.
Feedback from N.I. Kozlova
Healthy and excellent.
But I would add this: add some simple specific indicator to each item, so that it is clear whether you are preparing for this or not.
For example, Love a child — “My husband sees and feels every day that I love him. If you ask, he will confirm. Daily!»
Or «Be happy» — «Anyone with whom I speak on the phone and Skype will confirm that I have the voice of a happy person.»
Yes? So it will be stronger?