PSYchology

It is the anniversary of their meeting for my daughter and her husband. My husband bought flowers and a cake and came home from work. He congratulated his wife by giving flowers. The granddaughter was immediately upset, even offended that she, too, was not presented with flowers. She immediately grimaced, lamenting that they did not like her …

Instead of running to the store for flowers, as some parents would do so that the baby would not be offended — why do we feel sorry for the angel to bring joy? — the daughter immediately said to her granddaughter in a strict tone. “Come on, I removed the crooked face, put on a smile, and when dad got out of the bath was in perfect order, kiss dad and thank you for the cake!”. And then, sitting down, embracing and looking into the eyes, she explained that this holiday was specifically for dads and moms, and not a common one, for example, like the New Year, when everyone is given gifts. And she explained that there are different holidays and people are congratulated on them only by those who are directly related to them.

So this story served to build the next format, where the granddaughter did not fix the behavior of the “centropupist”.

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