PSYchology

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The film “Private life: the joy of close relationships. The session is conducted by Prof. N.I. Kozlov and psychologist Marina Smirnova»

The right to a clear conscience.

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Film «The Story of Us»

It is possible that the husband would not be quite tactful when he discussed his relationship with his wife with his secretary. But if the wife did not warn him that it was unpleasant for her and she was against it, there could be no complaints against her husband.

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The film “Private life: the joy of close relationships. The session is conducted by Prof. N.I. Kozlov and psychologist Marina Smirnova»

The right to a clear conscience in the situation «The husband returned home in the morning.»

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The right to a clear conscience is one of the rights of a family member, enshrined in the Family Constitution.

Everyone is good and loved always. As long as it is not proven that he violated the agreements, no charges. “The one who does something without violating the agreements is not guilty of anything.”

  • If I do something on my personal territory and do not get into the common territory, especially someone else’s, I have a clear conscience.
  • If I have not violated any existing agreements, then no matter what worries or worries the other side, I have a clear conscience.

The right to a clear conscience is the basis of the right to demand the fulfillment of agreements.

If my conscience is not clear, it is difficult for me to demand something from another, especially to put pressure on him. If I know that the tears or attacks of another are his problem, because my conscience is clear, I can ask to stop this emotional pressure on me, console and explain that we can resolve all disagreements in a good way. No pressure.

For example

The wife is pregnant, tired, she wants to go to bed already at 21.00, and her husband has to work until 23.00. We talked, but they didn’t find another solution, except for my husband to work (quietly if possible). Can the wife then be angry with her husband if she wakes up from his movements around the apartment? The answer is no. If we agreed that this is a common decision, now you can’t be angry with your husband. The husband tries for the family, the husband is good. Emotions removed.

The husband comes home tired, wants to eat, but there is no wife, no dinner. When the wife came (very late), it turned out that her friend’s mother was ill, and her help was needed. Can you be angry with your wife? If such a situation is for the first time and there were no special agreements, you cannot be angry with your wife. Dear man, make your own dinner and wait for your beloved wife.

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