Men often experience morning erections. Does it always involve sexual desire? And how is it different from the one that causes seductive behavior or caresses of a partner?
“When awakening, a man often has an erection — unless he is overtired, ill, oppressed by worries and does not feel anxiety or anger towards a sleeping woman next to him. How is the morning erection, which speaks of the mental and physical health of a man, different from the one that causes him a seductive outfit or coquetry of a partner? Such a question most often sounds just from her lips and, perhaps, with a share of regret that she alone can not be the cause of all her partner’s erections. But is a man driven only by impulsive impulses that can arouse the favor of a woman only if they arose in response to her own desire? If a woman thinks so, perhaps with her desire to control her partner’s reactions, she is trying to pacify her own fear of sexuality, of its animal component, which must be yielded to in order to surrender to love.
But what stops her from just celebrating the pleasant fact that her man woke up in excellent shape? Perhaps she lacks the ability to rejoice in something that does not depend on her in any way. Or she perceives this «sign of readiness» as the need to obey him. Meanwhile, a morning erection does not mean any obligation to have sex — neither for a woman, nor for a man. And for him, she poses neither an inconvenience nor a threat to health — on the contrary, she even gives pleasure, filling a man with a victorious feeling. After all, any erection caused by desire or pure physiology is a manifestation of vitality. She can give two the opportunity and pleasure of intimacy. But then again, there is absolutely no coercion here: a woman can well afford to go about her morning business, of course, without showing any neglect or aggression. Let’s cast aside all doubts: for two, a man’s morning erection is not a coercion to have sex … but only its possibility.